astronetster Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 I gotta make this story short. Me, my friend and his girlfriend used to hang out alot. I started to know this girl via my friend. After they dated for like 10 months, she broke up with him. Probably, when she broke up, she might have already falling for me then. She was emotional and upset about breakup even though she was the one to dump him. So almost everyday, I had to console her while my friend was being supported by other friends. This is where we fell in love with each other. After about 2 and a half month, I proposed her and we became a couple. (You see, I broke the social rule, I betrayed my friend unknowingly. We became enemies and I had lost all my friends. It doesn't matter while I was happy with her). So at first, everything was fine. We had a lo of fun together. But lately, due to my own personal problems and unable to get a proper job, I was in deep depression. So I put all my worries on her (probably, I took her for granted). We had lots of arguments. Finally, she said she couldn't go on any longer and so we broke off. We dated for like 6 mths or so. After we broke off, she told me that she had been missing her ex whenever we had arguments or she was in depression. After that, she felt pity for him and she was starting to have feeling for him again. Until now, she had been honest with me and our arguments and fights are now no more. I am trying to go No Contact with her. All my remaining friends told me to stop the losses and move on. But deep inside me, I still know that I love her a lot. So here are the fact: 1) Recent arguments and time conflicts had made us further away from each other unlike the previous times. 2) She said she still loves me but she also misses him. 3) She texted her ex after we broke up and he told her not to come back to him and to stick with me (that might probably stop her from coming to me altogether) 4) She doesnt want to go back to him neither (Avoid the same mistake from happening again) 5) She said she won't choose both of us right now. 6) She wishes me to be back to normal guy when we started dated (Yeah, I changed due to a lot of personal problems and being jobless) 7) I am not initiating contact with her but sometimes she texted me and called me. Then her emotions break down and cry again. (Then she said she loves me again) 8) We broke up for a little bit over a week (Oh yeah, its on valentines day!!!) 9) All my friends say that this relationship can't be rebuilt and put all the blame on her for being playful minded and childish So, here are the questions; 1) Am I in a rebound relationship with her? 2) Why did she feel for her ex again? 3) Going NC is a good meaning for me? 4) Will she come back to me? 5) Should I dump her and move on? While I still love her :'(
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