SJC2008 Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 Long story short at the end of our date today (3rd) I gave her what felt like the worst kiss of all time. I don't know why it felt that way but if they say trust your gut then it was bad. It was a day date and I like pda to a certain extent. Like holding hads, arm around her, and a quick smooch but I don't like to make out in public. I can't even really describe the kiss but it was closed mouthed, It was longer than our first kiss (which was short but great IMO) but just seemed bad. Anyway, how do I approach? Do I act like it never happened? Do I tell her I'm not really a public makeout artist? Knowing my luck I'll tell her I'm sorry about that bad kiss and she'd be like "what are you talking about?" lol. Advice please!
Ranchero44 Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 Hmmm . . . . I'd say just let it go for now. She may have thought it was fabulous! You never know. You are probably just being hard on yourself. I'd say just move on.
veggirl Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 Noooo OP. Do not bring it up!! Esp don't apologize for it! Forget it happened and make sure your next kiss is on point!
Author SJC2008 Posted February 22, 2012 Author Posted February 22, 2012 Ok so I won't bring it up. Our first kiss was short and very sweet and I liked it, it seemed natural, obviously I went for it but it had that "it just happened" feeling to it. This one was like I could not make up my mind what I wanted to do and I really didn't pucker, it was like our faces were smushed together lol. I just hope she's not thinking "what the hell was that?". I wasn't afraid to kiss her but for some reason being in broad daylight with plenty of people around kind of got to me. I should of just went for a short one like last time but I wanted something more and forced it. Would the average women walk away from one bad kiss? Be honest? @Ranchero44: I sure as H E double hockey sticks hope so too lol! Thanks for being positive!
veggirl Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 I'm pretty sure ANY girl who likes you would try the kiss again, not walk away just cause of one bad one! Don't worry! If the next one is bad, then yeah she'll prob be like WTF, but just make sure it's great
Ranchero44 Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 Would the average women walk away from one bad kiss? Be honest? No way! Not if I was really into the guy. That would be a dumb reason to throw away someone I really liked.
Author SJC2008 Posted February 22, 2012 Author Posted February 22, 2012 (edited) So far from the feedback it doesn't seem to be that big of a deal. I hope so but every time I think about it I just cringe . I guess we'll see what happens. Edited February 22, 2012 by SJC2008 bad grammar
Old Flame Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 There is no such thing as a bad closed mouth kiss. Those kind always leave the kissee wanting more.
mixwell Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 To be honest just from her accepting you kissing and arm around her sounds like she's interested. If she weren't she probably wouldn't be cool with the contact you've given her. Maybe give it a few more dates but if you did go in for a kiss and got the old cheek turn routine I'd say she's not interested but if she let you kiss her on the lips then she's probably interested just maybe let it ride out a few more dates. I would not bring up or explain anything, she might not even think anything of it to be honest and you're probably just over analyzing it and if you brought it up, she could possibly think you were an insecure person. Just let it ride and have fun with it.. Maybe after a few more dates you will get some tongue action going on.
make me believe Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 I agree with mixwell, you might be overanalyzing and bringing it up will definitely make you look insecure. Just pretend it didn't happen and try again next time A girl that likes you will not bolt because of one bad kiss, trust me. Kissing, sex, all that stuff can have awkward moments in the beginning when you're still learning about each other's style and trying to gauge how far you should go, how receptive the other person is, etc.
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