has anyone ever broke up with their partner about wrongfully cheating?

[rach24680]

So, if you read my last post, my boyfriend of 4 years has been signing up to dating websites and is continuing to look on these sites. I only found this out by spying by the way. Obviously i will confront him, but was wondering if anyone has broke up with their partner and it turns out they dudnt do anything wrong? also any advice on how i can approach the subject of iv only found this out by hacking into his emails?

Thanks

[Numb79]

I have never broken up with someone for cheating on me. But I do know that if I was in a relationship, I would never be on a dating website. He may not be physically cheating..... but he is starting to wander. That is just my opinion..... but what do I know? I'm a hot mess as well dealing with my own break up.

[rach24680]

Thanks, so you wouldnt even have a peek on something that got sent to you about a dating site?

[flitzanu]

So, if you read my last post, my boyfriend of 4 years has been signing up to dating websites and is continuing to look on these sites. I only found this out by spying by the way. Obviously i will confront him, but was wondering if anyone has broke up with their partner and it turns out they dudnt do anything wrong? also any advice on how i can approach the subject of iv only found this out by hacking into his emails?

Thanks

 

just because he received an email advertisement from a dating site? that's not proof of anything. you aren't being very clear as to what exactly you "found".

[CaliBabe]

Possible emotional cheating if he is signing up and seeking other women. If he is chatting it up, then yes, I think a boundary has been crossed. I have no idea what to say about the snooping because he will most likely get upset about that and try to use that against you.

 

Obviously a guy in a commited relationship should not be on dating websites.

[wilsonx]

rach, did you cheat on him?

[Mme. Chaucer]

If you don't like having a boyfriend who is active on dating sites, go ahead and break up with him. Sure, he's going to dislike that you hacked into his accounts, but who cares? You'll be broken up.

 

Or, learn how to accept having a boyfriend who remains active on dating sites.

[Zahara]

You stated in your other post, he is subscribing to porn sites, signing up with dating sites, saving pictures of half naked women and only has sex with you when he is drunk.

 

Aside from dating sites, don't you see all the other red flags in your relationship? What about this is good for you?

Edited February 22, 2012 by Zahara

[rach24680]

Hey thanks for ur replys, iv decided even if hes not met up with these girls hes been talking to on the dating sites, i still dnt wana be with him cs im not waitin round while he looks for something better!!