Lonelystar Posted June 5, 2004 Posted June 5, 2004 On wenesday a bunch of my friends want me to go to Six Flags Magic Mountain with them. The problem is that my ex will be going as well. ( since we share friends). I don't know if I should go..or just not? I don't want to let him know that it matters to me that he goes...but I don't know how to behave infront of him when I see him there. Any advice?
princess rose Posted June 5, 2004 Posted June 5, 2004 Whoa, Lonelystar, that's a tough one! I know exactly how you feel. It's hard for me to know how to behave around my ex. I know the next time I see him, I'll probably go nuts, even if that's not what I want to do. A strategy that works for me is to practice acting, meaning, when you're by yourself sometime, do a little role-playing, pretending that your ex is standing right in front of you. Practice what you might say, and then it might get a whole lot easier. It would suck to give up having a good time with your friends just because your ex is there.
Author Lonelystar Posted June 5, 2004 Author Posted June 5, 2004 Yeah i'll try that. I think it is better that I don't go...but will that make me look weak? Or should i suck in all my feelings and go. Eh..
Blah Toolz Posted June 7, 2004 Posted June 7, 2004 If you think you can deal with seeing him... remembering that he will be acting differently towards you, maybe even flirting with other girls... Then I'd say go for it. But if those things even stir you up in the least, then I don't think it's a good idea... because you'll definitely be getting riled up.
Author Lonelystar Posted June 7, 2004 Author Posted June 7, 2004 I think i'm going to go. I need to show him that I can handle it. Even if it hurts me I won't show it. I can't always avoid situations with him in it. I just hope there is no drama. I know there won't be from my part.
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