DonVee Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 (edited) So the past few days have I decided to just go NC so that I can try to figure out what it is I want instead of trying to figure out what it is he want's. So Friday night he calls me 3 times I don't answer and he text me once "Hey"... Saturday he called me about 11 times no text, Sunday 3 times and Monday he text me... "I don't understand why all of a sudden you decided not to take my calls or respond to my text, but I miss you and would you please call me back"! WTF, Really??? I'm so confused by his actions I don't even know how to respond or act. He stands me up with no reason or excuse, blows me off and then when I fall back he's calling, texting and missing me. I haven't responded yet and he text me this morning at 4am "I miss you" (looks like someones loosing sleep)... I really want to talk to him but I don't even know what to expect... My friends think he's afraid and don't know what to do with his feelings but I think he's chicken ****... I'm a very understanding person and he knows this I just want him to be upfront with me about what he want's and in the mean time I can figure out what it is I want. His recent actions have caused me to look at our relationship differently at this point I don't even know if I can take him serious... What is up with him? Edited February 21, 2012 by DonVee
InJest Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 (edited) Send him a short text saying, "Do not talk text me again unless you want to be in a committed relationship." Do not respond to anything other than, "I want to get back together." Edit: So just read your original thread about this. I think you should tell the guy that you're taking some time to figure out what you want with him, and you'll get back to him. In the meantime, you'll not be responding to him. Edited February 21, 2012 by InJest
ShannonMI Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 So the past few days have I decided to just go NC so that I can try to figure out what it is I want instead of trying to figure out what it is he want's. So Friday night he calls me 3 times I don't answer and he text me once "Hey"... Saturday he called me about 11 times no text, Sunday 3 times and Monday he text me... "I don't understand why all of a sudden you decided not to take my calls or respond to my text, but I miss you and would you please call me back"! WTF, Really??? I'm so confused by his actions I don't even know how to respond or act. He stands me up with no reason or excuse, blows me off and then when I fall back he's calling, texting and missing me. I haven't responded yet and he text me this morning at 4am "I miss you" (looks like someones loosing sleep)... I really want to talk to him but I don't even know what to expect... My friends think he's afraid and don't know what to do with his feelings but I think he's chicken ****... I'm a very understanding person and he knows this I just want him to be upfront with me about what he want's and in the mean time I can figure out what it is I want. His recent actions have caused me to look at our relationship differently at this point I don't even know if I can take him serious... What is up with him? Talk to him and tell him you really hate the way he blows you off all time. You were giving him a taste of his own medicine by ignoring his ass. He didn''t like it, did he? Well now he knows how it feels for you when he stands you up and treats you like sh*t. What is this guy afraid of? Commitment? If so, dump him.
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