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Its weird how rejection from the opposite sex hurts me the most in life


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Ive been through a decent amount in life like[nothing that crazy] most people have and fought and survived id like to think im a pretty strong person mentally and can rebound from tragedy or bad situations or at least learn how to deal with it..

Yet one of the things in my life that cripples me in fear is women and dating..the fear i have of approaching women and getting rejected and the feeling of unwant and failure and thinking im not attractive to most women stings me like nothing else..

 

I know its not logical i tell myself its not life or death getting rejected or failing with the opposite sex but for some reaosn its soemthing that haunts me.. It annoys me because logically i know how trivial getitng rejected is in the schyeme of things compared to other things yet it seems like something i cant get over..

 

I rarely approach women but when i do and get rejected i just feel awful and ugly...As i said i know its not logical but im ashamed how much i let it effect me yet i cant get over it..

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Is this something you actually want to work on? Or would you rather not deal with the fear of rejection directly?

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