somedude81 Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 Okay. And will you stop including the comments about how easy all women have it in your bitchfests? That would be awesome. Why should I? My belief is that women have it much easier than men, specifically me, is one of my key points. I also have no doubt that if I were a woman, I'd be married by now. And it would be to somebody that is quality. Oh, come on, somedude, you know that the problem isn't so much you bitching about your problems as it is you negating other peoples'. Saying that no women could possibly have it tough dating, or telling the world that a woman's number is "too high" at a certain age is WAY too judgy for a guy who is constantly asking for peoples' help on here. "Get over it," indeed. I have a right to say whatever I want. Look, I'm not calling anybody sluts here, I'm trying to use PC language. If a woman is offended that I think her number is too high for her age, then that's her problem. I also said that it goes both ways, males with high numbers aren't any better than females.
fortyninethousand322 Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 I have a right to say whatever I want. Look, I'm not calling anybody sluts here, I'm trying to use PC language. If a woman is offended that I think her number is too high for her age, then that's her problem. I also said that it goes both ways, males with high numbers aren't any better than females. Exactly. It's not like the "loser, bitter guys on LS" brigade has been looking to high-five promiscuous males. We've been pretty consistent and egalitarian along gender lines.
Mme. Chaucer Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 Why should I? My belief is that women have it much easier than men, specifically me, is one of my key points. Of course! And we can all see how this is working for you. Boy, can we. I also have no doubt that if I were a woman, I'd be married by now. And it would be to somebody that is quality Maybe to somebody with incredibly low self esteem who does not feel like pursuing a happy life. Because I'm not getting any sense that you'd bring any joy to a relationship, no matter what gender you happened to be. If a woman is offended that I think her number is too high for her age, then that's her problem. I also said that it goes both ways, males with high numbers aren't any better than females. You've posted on many occasions about how you think women should "give" you sex out of … pity? obligation? I'm not sure. But that would increase their number and make them low quality, right?
somedude81 Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 (edited) Of course! And we can all see how this is working for you. Boy, can we. Working out for me? I'm just venting. I thought that was obvious. Maybe to somebody with incredibly low self esteem who does not feel like pursuing a happy life. Because I'm not getting any sense that you'd bring any joy to a relationship, no matter what gender you happened to be. On the contrary, I know I'd bring in a lot of joy to a relationship once I can finally get one. I have no doubt that I can be an excellent boyfriend, I just need to find a woman whose willing to give me a chance. You've posted on many occasions about how you think women should "give" you sex out of … pity? obligation? I'm not sure. But that would increase their number and make them low quality, right? I have never said that. Go ahead and do a search. I have no interest in pity sex. I also have no desire for casual sex. Ideally, the next woman I have sex with would be somebody that I love or at least know very well and like her a lot. Edited February 21, 2012 by somedude81
Saxis Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 My GF thought I was secretly a man-whore when we first started having sex. She was shocked to find out she was only my third partner at 30 years old. I was her tenth, and being 4 years older than her, that number would normally scare me. But I found out the reason she was so shocked, was that I have been the best she's ever had, and she is likewise for me. She's still kind of insecure and ashamed about her one night stands, and even thinks she is degrading and not good enough for me, but now that she considers me her "personal orgasm donor", she's getting over it... 1
veggirl Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 Jeez. this again. What's so wrong with "don't ask don't tell". I'm more concerned with STDs or a history of cheating than an exact # count. My BF and I have never exchanged #s....honestly I don't know anyone over like, 22 who does that. I'm surprised so many grown adults do this. It seems just...unnecessary and immature to me. Then again, I'm not of the mindset that having a large # of past partners means someone will be a terrible partner. Nor do I think exchanging #s is necessary in learning about someones past.
Mme. Chaucer Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 I think that if anyone is ever asked for their "number," the only appropriate answers are either 1,000,000, or 0. That ought to shut them up.
veggirl Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 I think that if anyone is ever asked for their "number," the only appropriate answers are either 1,000,000, or 0. That ought to shut them up. hee! "what's your number?" "six..." "oh, okay!" "...thousand" "what?" "what?" "six thousand?" "six thousand!" I can't imagine anyone'll ever ask me that question, but if they do, I've now got my answer ready to go! 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 My husband never asked me, but I'm ready if he does.
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