woknows Posted June 5, 2004 Posted June 5, 2004 Hi all, I have been married for almost 9 years. I remembered the date I decided to tell my wife(girlfriend I should said) we should broke up because I felt she is not the type of person I really love, but I hesitated to tell her on the way I drove her back to the apartment, there is shock response she replied back to me when I was hesitated to tell her, then she told me she was pregnant. I pull back the word I try to said to her than we ended it up with abortion, right after I graduated from school, I married her instead because I think this is my responsibility and I should took it like a man. All the years pass by. I found out my wife does not like have a sex intercourse. Most of time I need to get myself out by watching X-rated TV program. I have been told my wife several times about the situation I am encounter but I do not know if she is really remember what I have told her or just ignore me. My mother-in-law lives with us now. From my impression is my Farther-in-law only came back home once a months in his entire life and my mother-in-law told my wife the sex intercourse is not good for her body at all. Now I have two kids and I never cheated my wife and I am struggling with my sex life at all time, beside I try to solve the problem that I encounter so I asked my wife to quit the job, after 4 years but things never get improve. I really do not know what is wrong with me. Lony_Man
DerangedAngel Posted June 5, 2004 Posted June 5, 2004 Could you please edit your post? Or repost for clarity? I'm sorry, but I'm not exactly sure what it is that you're needing help with. The more details we have, and the better we can understand, the easier it will be for us to reply. Is your main issue your wife's lack of desire to be with you sexually? -Deranged
moimeme Posted June 5, 2004 Posted June 5, 2004 He's saying the wife doesn't want sex and the MIL is telling her that sex is no good, which isn't helping. Can you go to a marriage counsellor, woknows? Your wife needs a professional to help her sort out her ideas about sex.
DerangedAngel Posted June 5, 2004 Posted June 5, 2004 Thanks, moi. I second her suggestion for counseling, woknows, and I wish you the best of luck. -Deranged
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