kwoman99 Posted February 20, 2012 Posted February 20, 2012 my boyfriend of a year and 1 month just broke up with me. we were in a long distance relationship because we go to different colleges but I was still seeing him almost every weekend. first we went on a break because we had been spending a lot of time arguing. we didn't talk much for 3 days but there were still a couple of times where he told me he loved me. he called me on the 3rd day saying hes been thinking a lot during our break and half the time he just wanted to call me and tell me this was all a mistake and wanted to be with me but the other half of the time he was thinking he wanted to break up. his reasoning was "he just wasn't 100% in it" and its not fair for me to be with someone like that. I was in complete shock that he didnt even want to try to work things out with me. I asked him multiple times if there was someone else that he was thinking he might be happier with and he kept saying no thats not the case at all, I just dont know what happened to make me feel differently about you. a week later I find out that hes hanging out with this girl he always said was a friend from the gym. they went out to lunch the day after he broke up and then spent valentines day together the day after. now the girl keeps updating her fb saying shes with a "special someone " and posting pics of things he is doing for her. all of this seems so weird to me because not even two weeks ago everything was perfect and he was telling me how he loves having me in his life. we were making plans to take a trip later that month and now all of a sudden him and this new girl are doing everything together. I just feel like she has to be a rebound or he's just infatuated with her because shes something new. does this seem like the case?
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