The guy who broke my heart and won't speak to me is checking me out online...

[yolatanga]

What is up with that? I've already told my story about the man told me he was still in love with ex (I think he said that to get rid of me), we still remained friends because she was not having him back for the 4th time. We went to a party together on the Dec. 18th, had a great time. He's not spoken to me since. During the holidays no less. Not even when we see each other. Unfortunately, we have the same friends and go to the same places. I don't get that behavior at all. Someone please explain this to me. Well anyway, I decided to do the online dating thing (hate it so far) and someone with no picture was checking me out. His profile sounded awefully familiar, but his age change threw me off. He changed his age. Weird. I was with him on his 44th bday, I know how old he is. Low and behold he put pics up and it was him. I knew it! Now that time has passed I thought it would be fun to send him a note and laugh about the whole thing. No response. I feel so foolish. Someone smack me.

 

Why are you checking me out if you want nothing to do with me? confused

[Emilia]

Consider being smacked.

 

I asked a man once who I knew wasn't interested in me because of my age why he kept checking my profile. He said he had a way of opening all profiles together at the same time as that was the quickest way of going through them one by one. He kept coming up on my 'visitors' list until I blocked him.

 

Out of interest: is he trying to sell himself off as younger? I could swear some guys lie online about their age.

[Anela]

I know of a guy who changed his age - tried to pass himself off as younger. It's really off-putting. I'm not keen on my age anymore, but am not about to say that I'm 29.

[yolatanga]

Consider being smacked.

 

I asked a man once who I knew wasn't interested in me because of my age why he kept checking my profile. He said he had a way of opening all profiles together at the same time as that was the quickest way of going through them one by one. He kept coming up on my 'visitors' list until I blocked him.

 

Out of interest: is he trying to sell himself off as younger? I could swear some guys lie online about their age.

At least you got an answer even if it was a lame one. He was checking out your profile no matter how he looks at them.

 

He changed it to 42. Odd. Now I'm wondering if he lied to me about his age. I have all sorts of men winking at me who I know are lying about their age. Some old dudes trying to pass himself off as a 40 yr old. Who are these people kidding?

[Anela]

The guy I mentioned above, changed his age because he thought he didn't look his age (he does), and he then edited the age range that he was looking for to three years younger than his previously-listed youngest age. He changed the oldest acceptable age, to women his own age.

[Oxy Moronovich]

I think all you women, especially Emilia, should show me your dating profiles with pics so I can evaluate this.

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The same guy who I had an ONS with somehow managed to find me online. He wanted to have another go at a little tryst but all I did was laughed and blocked him. That's the only advantage of online dating, you can block people you find annoying.

 

Leave it be. This guy is giving off a creepy vibe especially with the age thing, I'd imagine he's trying to worm his way into a younger woman's pants.

[yolatanga]

The same guy who I had an ONS with somehow managed to find me online. He wanted to have another go at a little tryst but all I did was laughed and blocked him. That's the only advantage of online dating, you can block people you find annoying.

 

Leave it be. This guy is giving off a creepy vibe especially with the age thing, I'd imagine he's trying to worm his way into a younger woman's pants.

His age range is from 30 - 45 is all I know. He knows I busted him so he's not saying boo. He had his friend check out my profile next. He needs to grow a set.