TotallyC Posted February 20, 2012 Posted February 20, 2012 So I still don't know how I stumbled onto this site but I am hoping is that I will receive some advice on my relationship gone bad We met a couple years back, have been together for a year and a month now. She is an amazing women and I absolutely love everything about her even her temper. My problem is that I sometimes don't show her enough that I care, it's been our problem since the get go. I have become more of an affectionate person but it always comes back up. When we are together it is so much fun I can't live without her. Recently we broke up (we live together) and it was horrible it was for the same issue and other fights as well. What she tells me is that I we are unstable, she cries and cries telling me how we have no future anymore how I won't ever change and that if I truly loved her I wouldn't put we through so much pain. We started taking baby steps on working this relationship out. But last night it happened again, she says she feels like sometimes we are just friends. Honestly I am so in love with her I would do anything, at this point I don't know what to do anymore. Do I give up because I am hurting her or do I continue because I love her. I even had to ask her and she told me she wish she knew what to do. How do we make each other feel so right but at the same time do wrong. I feel like now she is just with me because we have an apt together. I don't know what to think or do anymore, I too am hurting a lot. Any advice will be greatly appreciated!
kwoman99 Posted February 20, 2012 Posted February 20, 2012 If you know what to you need to change to make her happy then do it. always try to remember to let people know how grateful you are of them.
Author TotallyC Posted February 20, 2012 Author Posted February 20, 2012 The thing is that I have tried to change that problem, and no matter what it goes back to that. For instance at the movies this weekend she was being affectionate with me and I didn't show it back, because well I was pretty much falling asleep in the movie! But she brought that up and was upse saying it will never stop. I love her too much to continue putting her through this, when times r good they are freaking fantastic when they go bad it is hell. I feel guilty for doing this to her, I let her go. I'm moving into the other bedroom. Until our lease is up.
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