Wink Tobasco Posted February 20, 2012 Posted February 20, 2012 I've done the broken hearted over a girl thing. Yes it hurt. But now, having lost a dear parent, I feel stupid for having been so upset at a break-up. Focus on the person who loves you more than anything, who has forgave you the most, who done more for you than anyone ever will. The person you WILL lose someday. Keep it in mind, I hope it helps 5
petal28 Posted February 20, 2012 Posted February 20, 2012 Thanks for the reminder Wink. So true. As soon as i read this, something in me clicked. Here i am worrying my little heart out about an ass of a guy when i should focusing on my lovely and caring family. Thanks for the perspective and i'm sorry for your loss.
Exit Posted February 20, 2012 Posted February 20, 2012 Good point. I need to make amends with a few family members. I've been feeling terrible about my breakup and other circumstances in my life and have allowed myself to treat other people pretty poorly. These are the people who have always been there for me and don't give up on me like the person who left me behind.
Frank13 Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 If this is true, why don't the exs come back? If they should be focusing on the one that loves them the most, why are they gone?
stitch702 Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 I've done the broken hearted over a girl thing. Yes it hurt. But now, having lost a dear parent, I feel stupid for having been so upset at a break-up. Focus on the person who loves you more than anything, who has forgave you the most, who done more for you than anyone ever will. The person you WILL lose someday. Keep it in mind, I hope it helps You are very right. Your post definitely puts things into perspective. It is the same perspective that I am beginning to maintain since my break up. Would I have rather traded my ex for one of my parents? No. Would I have traded my ex for my wonderful career? No. Would I have traded my ex for my wonderful friends? No. They say you don't realize what you have until its gone. This is true in a sense because when she left me, I realized what God has blessed me with. A great family, wonderful friends, and great and stable career. I realized that the real relationships that I had taken for granted were those three things and now that my g/f is gone I know that I'm really am blessed. I may not have everything that I want, but I have everything that I need. Besides, I deserve better...much better 1
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