shopgirl2004 Posted June 5, 2004 Posted June 5, 2004 Ok I need advice. I have a guy friend that I'm not sure if I'm ruined out relationship or not. We have become good friends over the past year and get along really well. He had a gf when I met him but was planning to break up as they were really rocky. I wasn't planning on anything happening between us but over the past few months have gotten closer and did a few things that maybe we shouldn't have. I don't plan on pursuing anything more considering he's still with her but I just feel like after we played around(never went all the way) that he has turned his back on me. At first we just became closer and closer but now its almost as if he's just gotten all he wanted. Within a day he had totaly changed. I see him all the time and hes friendly, even sometimes the same guy I knew when we were close...but most of the time he's just almost oblivious to me now. He just doesn't seem to want to talk anymore like we did for hours. One day he'll stare at me with a smile in his eyes like we're close again and the next i'll have to work to get his attention. Did I do something wrong? I never was the initiator when anything happened. Is it really that he got what he wanted and I just need to realize that he was like that?
ThisGirlNameKD Posted June 5, 2004 Posted June 5, 2004 Is it really that he got what he wanted and I just need to realize that he was like that? Yeah. Or he maybe feeling guilty that he fooled around on his girl.
Author shopgirl2004 Posted June 5, 2004 Author Posted June 5, 2004 you know, it took me a long time to figgure that out b/c i totaly didn't think he was like that. maybe he is just feeling guilty but i would think he'd tell me that...unless he's trying to keep an open door to try for more later.
Author shopgirl2004 Posted June 5, 2004 Author Posted June 5, 2004 I kinda want a guy's perspective on this
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