vinit Posted February 20, 2012 Posted February 20, 2012 Hello Friends, I am 25 years old and my gf is 24. its been one and half years for our relationship. She wanted to get married to me but I asked her to wait for 2 years so that I can fix my financial issues. She agreed to this and decided to wait for me. Last month I was posted away from our city to a new place miles away from her. In this time she said that one of her close friend has proposed her for marriage and wants to meet her. She asked me if its ok if they meet, so that she can sort things between them as he was not aware of our relationship. Trusting her I allowed her to meet him. After a week she has now confessed that she had sex with him and is guilty and is begging for my forgiveness. She said she still loves me and wants to marry me. She said she couldn't control and everything happened very fast. I still love her but it hurts to the core and I am confused how should I take things forward. Please help me.
EgoJoe Posted February 20, 2012 Posted February 20, 2012 Dump her. She made a choice and even though she admitted it, she is not owning up to it. Maybe in time it will be ok to forgive her, that is your choice HOWEVER, do not deal with/talk/condone etc. her excuses. She will just lose respect for you and do it again. This Woman is not marriage material (for now) maybe she'll change or whatever. But, for now, you must dump her.
Author vinit Posted February 20, 2012 Author Posted February 20, 2012 Thanks brother. I will do it for sure.
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