headsashed Posted February 19, 2012 Posted February 19, 2012 We havent done too bad,we gone about 6 weeks before our 1st argument lol,its so stupid too but i think things might get worse. ill explain. We have been fine basically since we reconciled at the new year,done things were supposed to do etc. Last weekend my parents asked me to go away for a few days with them,i agreed and told my ex/gf, she was fine with it all too, i wanted to spend valentines day with her as we have been through a very lot the past few months and on valentines day night she rang me and said she had gone to her friends house and was stopping the night because she wasnt goin to see her for a few days as her friend was working nights for the rest of the week and that she would see me the next day and make it upto me,i didnt mind at all, the next day she finished work and txt me to say she was going to be late as she had gone with her friend somewhere,this is the friend whom was supposed to start work at the same time my ex/gf finished,i thought she was workin lol,anyway and hour later i went to my ex/gf house and she cooked for me etc,was nice,but she obviousley lied to me? thursday come and i went away until saturday,i know she was goin to a party that night and i dint mind that so i asked if she wanted lunch saturday before she went to the party because we had not seen each other for a few days,she agreed,saturday comes and she comes to my house at like 5pm,she came with her friend,stayed loike 5 mins then left,i asked about why she didnt come for lunch an she said she fell to sleep,funny how she had been to her friends,back to her own house then mine. Today she rang me and said she was goin home for a bath them comin to mine for a few hours,she txt me a few hours later askin if i wanted to goto hers instead cos she wasnt feeling too well,i said yes but after my film had finished,i went to hers after and was there for like 20 mins and she said she was goin to bed,this was like 8pm lol,i wasnt too fussed but it woulda been nice to spend more time with her. I got home and txt her night,she started goin off at me askin why i walked off,i didnt walk off at all,she said she was goin in and said bye,so i set off home,anhyway,she said ive been apparently telling people were back together,which i havent said a word bout anything,its a small village we live in and everyone sees us together so they just put 2 and 2 together,she told me to tell people we aint together and thats not good at all is it? her last txt just said she cba now...no idea what that means. I know i may look selfish in this but im not,she has done everything she has wanted to do without me causing any arguments and things have been good up until today.
Philosoraptor Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 Seems like she has an issue with honesty. You should let her know that you will not be mad at her if she goes somewhere, you'd just like to know if she makes alternate plans as you could find something else to do than waiting for her to show up as it worries you that something could have happened to her, etc. Though I'd say she wants the comfort of you but doesn't want anyone to know you are together so she can keep her options open.
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