Herpes or Marijuana

February 22, 2012

Really? We may have to agree to disagree on what I can or can't express an opinion about, and on some of your other points that you don't want me to discuss.

Really??? How can you discuss something you have never experienced???

Edited February 22, 2012 by Soxfaninfl

February 22, 2012

Really??? How can you discuss something you have never experienced???

Fairly easily.

February 22, 2012

Fairly easily.

No you can't because you've never experienced it.

February 22, 2012

No you can't because you've never experienced it.

Then, like I said, we may have to agree to disagree. Okay? If not, I'm happy with just disagreeing.

February 22, 2012

I dont need to experience a penis rash to know I dont want one.

/thread

February 22, 2012

I dont need to experience a penis rash to know I dont want one.

/thread

You may want to see a doctor if you have one cause it may fall of LoL.

February 22, 2012

You may want to see a doctor if you have one cause it may fall of LoL.

riiiight.

Unlike you, I dont require periodic visits to the doctor regarding anything underneath my pants.

But thanks for the advice.

February 22, 2012

riiiight.

Unlike you, I dont require periodic visits to the doctor regarding anything underneath my pants.

But thanks for the advice.

I had one out break over a year ago and probably won't have one again. All I had was a one bump. See you don't what your talking about. Herpes causes bumps not rashes. This is how much you know about it.

February 22, 2012

I had one out break over a year ago and probably won't have one again. All I had was a one bump. See you don't what your talking about. Herpes causes bumps not rashes. This is how much you know about it.

Excuse me for misspeaking and calling it a rash instead of the blisters they are...which is a lot more annoying and gross than a rash.

I still dont need to experience that to know I wont put myself in a position to catch it.

You are not convincing anyone is this thread. You can continue disliking and avoiding pot, and I will continue disliking and avoiding STDs.

February 22, 2012

Excuse me for misspeaking and calling it a rash instead of the blisters they are...which is a lot more annoying and gross than a rash.

I still dont need to experience that to know I wont put myself in a position to catch it.

You are not convincing anyone is this thread. You can continue disliking and avoiding pot, and I will continue disliking and avoiding STDs.

Have you ever seen an image of an HIV rash? Now that is something nasty to look at. I know this is, I will still have my brain cells in 20 years cause I didn't smoke them away smoking weed. Good luck not getting herpes cause 1 in 4 adults have it and 25% of adults that have it don't know they even have it. You can get herpes from oral sex cause I did. I used protection but not during oral sex. You better blood test everyone you plan to sleep with you cause herpes is very common. I know 10 people that have it. Good luck not getting it.

February 22, 2012

Have you ever seen an image of an HIV rash? Now that is something nasty to look at. I know this is, I will still have my brain cells in 20 years cause I didn't smoke them away smoking weed.

Lol @ you going the ole "reefer madness" brain cells route. I know older tokers who are just find mentally and are intellectuals themselves. So spare me.

Do you not drink alcohol btw? Because getting drunk smashes up brain cells ya know.

Either way, its still stupid that we are comparing a soft drug to a disease. They are not comparable.

Good luck not getting herpes cause 1 in 4 adults have it and 25% of adults that have it don't know they even have it. You can get herpes from oral sex cause I did.

That means 75% of people are clean.

Thats works for me. Isnt the 1 in 4 just a rough estimate anyways? Either way I find out someones status before hooking up. Maybe you should have done that before you let some chick suck you off?

I used protection but not during oral sex. You better blood test everyone you plan to sleep with you cause herpes is very common. I know 10 people that have it. Good luck not getting it.

Oh wells...maybe youll learn to find out someone status before hooking up next time? I imagine this was a random hook up? or someone you didnt know very well right?

Given your stats, 75% of people not having herpes means non-herpes folks are quite common as well. With that said, its very easy to talk to people about their status and to be careful about sex. Its not like im going out every weekend and sleeping with girls I dont know.

Of course you know ten people who have it...because you have it. People with STDs just dont go and announce it to non-STD folks that they have it.

I dont need your good luck wishes btw. Its easy to avoid STDs if one practices safe sex and has open and honest communication with partners. Shame you didnt do that in the past. But Im sure if it was up to you, everyone would have it, that way no one could choose to not date you because of it.

But good luck with your herpes.

Edited February 22, 2012 by kaylan

February 22, 2012

Lol @ you going the ole "reefer madness" brain cells route. I know older tokers who are just find mentally and are intellectuals themselves. So spare me.

Do you not drink alcohol btw? Because getting drunk smashes up brain cells ya know.

I don’t drink. I have seen what alcohol does to people’s health.

Either way, its still stupid that we are comparing a soft drug to a disease. They are not comparable.

Soft or hard it kills brains cells. Test have proven that it does. Herpes does not.

That means 75% of people are clean.

Thats works for me. Isnt the 1 in 4 just a rough estimate anyways? Either way I find out someones status before hooking up. Maybe you should have done that before you let some chick suck you off?

I did have conversations with my girlfriend. She told me she was clean. I put my trust in her. She had told me she had been tested for HIV and other STD’s. Obviously she was not tested for herpes cause herpes is not life threating like HIV, Syphilis, Chlamydia or Gonorrhea; this is how ignorant you are when it comes to herpes. You cannot get herpes if someone who has it gives you oral sex. It’s the other way around. Maybe you will learn something from me.

Oh wells...maybe youll learn to find out someone status before hooking up next time? I imagine this was a random hook up? or someone you didnt know very well right?

I did have conversations with my girlfriend about it and used protection with her, but I didn’t when I gave her oral sex. No she was not a random hookup she was my girlfriend that I dated for 3 months. I don’t sleep around, and I have never had a random hook up. I just came out of a 11 year marriage. We were together for 13 years total. I married my wife when I was 24. I am 36 now.

Given your stats, 75% of people not having herpes means non-herpes folks are quite common as well. With that said, its very easy to talk to people about their status and to be careful about sex. Its not like im going out every weekend and sleeping with girls I dont know.

So what are you going to do when you date someone that doesn’t realize that they have it and gives it to you? They will tell you they are clean and have been tested. It has happened to other people. Good luck with that one. Really? You have used dental dam on a woman? No you haven’t. I don’t know any guys that have used dental dam on a women. You can’t even get dental dam in drug stores or even in the health department. I found some at a STD testing clinic. The guy that gave them to me told me it is very hard to find. Let me educate you on oral sex. You can get herpes and HPV from a woman if you give her oral sex without dental dam and they have those STD's. Hell you may have HPV and don't even know it. There is no test to tell if a man has HPV. If you get penile cancer then you will know you had it.

Of course you know ten people who have it...because you have it. People with STDs just dont go and announce it to non-STD folks that they have it.

I did. They were the ones comforting me and telling me how many people that have it and some told me names of people who had it.

I dont need your good luck wishes btw. Its easy to avoid STDs if one practices safe sex and has open and honest communication with partners. Shame you didnt do that in the past. But Im sure if it was up to you, everyone would have it, that way no one could choose to not date you because of it.

Really is it that easy to avoid STD’s if you don't use protection during oral sex? Have ever used dental dam on a woman? I highly doubt that because it’s so hard to find. My second girlfriend I dated after my divorce was not going to tell me she had herpes. She was tired of being rejected. She only told me she had it because I told her I had it first. People lie about having std's all the time and will tell you they are clean. Your ignorant if you don’t think this happens.

Why would I wish herpes upon another person? It’s not a big deal to me, but people are treated differently because of the stigma of having an incurable skin condition that is contagious. It’s their choice if they choose not to date me. By the way I can give blood so you know. You can not get herpes from a blood transfusion. I know that I may get rejected in the future. I have read that it happens and my ex-GF said it happened to her. My current girlfriend that I just started dating is fine with it. We use condoms during intercourse and she doesn’t give me oral sex. This way I won’t put her at risk of getting it. There is always a risk and condoms aren't 100%, but my GF feels that I’m worth it. There are people out there like that obviously your not one of them. I’m done with you. Hopefully you learned something from me.

Edited February 22, 2012 by Soxfaninfl

February 22, 2012

I don’t drink. I have seen what alcohol does to people’s health.

Nothing in excess is good for you.

Too much Iron or Vitamin C can harm people even though our bodies need it.

Soft or hard it kills brains cells. Test have proven that it does. Herpes does not.

An STD is not comparable to a drug. Simple.

Btw, the myth that pot kills brain cells has been debunked before. You might wanna do a little more research.

I did have conversations with my girlfriend. She told me she was clean. I put my trust in her. She had told me she had been tested for HIV and other STD’s. Obviously she was not tested for herpes cause herpes is not life threating like HIV, Syphilis, Chlamydia or Gonorrhea; this is how ignorant you are when it comes to herpes. You cannot get herpes if someone who has it gives you oral sex. It’s the other way around. Maybe you will learn something from me.

How am I ignorant? Looks like you and your girlfriend were ignorant since you did not ask her if she was tested for ALL stds. Live and learn buddy.

And wtf are you talking about? If someone has herpes on their mouth, they can DEFINITELY give you herpes by performing oral sex. And YOU just said you got herpes from an oral sex escapade. Allow me to quote you.

Have you ever seen an image of an HIV rash? Now that is something nasty to look at. I know this is, I will still have my brain cells in 20 years cause I didn't smoke them away smoking weed. Good luck not getting herpes cause 1 in 4 adults have it and 25% of adults that have it don't know they even have it. You can get herpes from oral sex cause I did. I used protection but not during oral sex. You better blood test everyone you plan to sleep with you cause herpes is very common. I know 10 people that have it. Good luck not getting it.

So which is it buddy? Do you simply say the opposite of what I say and call me wrong when it suits you?

Either way, as I said...if someone has herpes in their mouth and gives you oral sex, you CAN catch it. Also, if you give someone oral who has genital herpes you CAN catch it.

I did have conversations with my girlfriend about it and used protection with her, but I didn’t when I gave her oral sex. No she was not a random hookup she was my girlfriend that I dated for 3 months. I don’t sleep around, and I have never had a random hook up. I just came out of a 11 year marriage. We were together for 13 years total. I married my wife when I was 24. I am 36 now.

Well at least now you know that while protection is a must, you should also make sure someone has had ALL their Std tests. Oh wells...now ya know.

So what are you going to do when you date someone that doesn’t realize that they have it and gives it to you? They will tell you they are clean and have been tested. It has happened to other people. Good luck with that one. Really? You have used dental dam on a woman? No you haven’t. I don’t know any guys that have used dental dam on a women. You can’t even get dental dam in drug stores or even in the health department. I found some at a STD testing clinic. The guy that gave them to me told me it is very hard to find. Let me educate you on oral sex. You can get herpes and HPV from a woman if you give her oral sex without dental dam and they have those STD's. Hell you may have HPV and don't even know it. There is no test to tell if a man has HPV. If you get penile cancer then you will know you had it.

Date someone that has it and doesnt realize it? Ha ha fat chance. See unlike you, Ill ask someone if they've had ALL of their std tests since their last sexual encounter. Rather be safe then sorry. So if someone tells me they are clean, Ill make sure they are clean. I wont miss on the herpes test like you did...which was unfortunate.

And no I havent used a dental dam. No need to because Ive been with clean women. You mad?

Lemme educate YOU on oral sex. I am not catching anything if I hook up with clean women who actually truly KNOW their health status. And Im positive Im negative for HPV (lolz) Girls I have been with have been tested long after we stopped hooking up and they are clean. Yes I would know this because Ive stayed friends with a couple of girls I used to be physical with.

I did. They were the ones comforting me and telling me how many people that have it and some told me names of people who had it.

Well good for you. They told you personal info about other folks so you wouldnt feel alone. Ok...still doesnt change the fact that theres still plenty of clean girls for me to date. Even though you seem to hate the fact that Id reject herpes chicks.

Really is it that easy to avoid STD’s if you don't use protection during oral sex? Have ever used dental dam on a woman? I highly doubt that because it’s so hard to find. My second girlfriend I dated after my divorce was not going to tell me she had herpes. She was tired of being rejected. She only told me she had it because I told her I had it first. People lie about having std's all the time and will tell you they are clean. Your ignorant if you don’t think this happens.

Its easy to avoid STDs if you have sex with clean people you know well and trust. Ive done it for 7 years and am completely STD free. You mad? Its almost as if you wish everyone had herpes just so you didnt feel left out.

And if I really needed dental damns, they are NOT hard to find. I can simply hit the STD clinic thats a mile away, or order them online in bulk very easily.

Obviously people lie about STDs. But you can usually smell a rat. You can usually see the lie in their face when you bring up an important topic. And the best way to get the truth out of someone is to simply say "Trust is very important to me...so Ill be honest and let you know that if you ever lie to me about something thats important to me, I wont stick around". That or I could just ask for test results...simple.

People who would rather selfishly lie and inflict a disease onto someone arent worth much anyways. And if I was serious about a chick and she was unwilling to get tested with me, then Id see her as untrustworthy and bail.

Why would I wish herpes upon another person? It’s not a big deal to me, but people are treated differently because of the stigma of having an incurable skin condition. It’s their choice if they choose not to date me. I know that I may get rejected in the future. My current girlfriend that I just started dating is fine with it. We use condoms during intercourse and she doesn’t give me oral sex. This way I won’t put her at risk of getting it. There is always a risk, but my GF feels that I’m worth it. There are people out there like that. I’m done with you. Maybe you will learn something from me.

Dude, your entire attitude is basically "well herpes is no big deal, and youre prolly gonna catch it anyways...so you shouldnt avoid it" Thats what your attitude says to me. Its obviously not a big deal to you because YOU have it. Makes sense right?

And just an incurable skin condition? Excuse me, but anything that needs a cure, is a disease. People dont want a disease, especially one on their genitals, that they cannot get rid of. Thems the breaks dude. Some folks might be ok with dating someone who has herpes, and some wont be ok with it. Luckily for you, you found a chick who was cool with it.

But damn, no oral for life? Now I definitely want to make sure I never put myself in a position to catch herpes. You gave me another reason not to date someone who has it. Counterproductive much?

I did learn something from you. Herpes = no blowjobs. It also means Id never be able to have unprotected sex for the rest of my life. Screw that. I enjoy sex the way nature intended when Im in a committed relationship.

Id prefer to avoid such a fate. Later bro.

Edited February 22, 2012 by kaylan

February 22, 2012

I think this thread has reached it's potential, enough said.

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