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Hello all,

 

My story is strange, and I am hoping some of the viewers here can help me read into this. On Sunday I had nothing else to do, so I decided to make some calls to the local tattoo parlors to get one one of my tattoos re-done. After calling a whole bunch of places, I finally got someone on the phone. I asked her if they had time to re-do one for me. She said they had no appointments that evening, and I should come on down. I got in my car, drove all the way across Long Island to this little place. Walked into the shop, and there's only one person there. It was the girl I spoke to on the phone. I asked her if I spoke to her when I called, and she said it was her, and to take a seat, SHE'D be right with me. This girl looked 15 years old MAX, and SHE was going to INK ME. I'll skip the rest of the non-important crap. After spending 4 hours in her chair, I find out a lot about her life, and find out shes 28, 4 years older then I am. Now, I know what you all are thinking, this girl must be one of those punk girls, with tattoos all over her body. Actually not. She has one on her upper arm (totally covered by sleeves) and 2 others. This girl, to me, is actually drop dead beautiful, smart, she has a phsych degree, home owner, business owner, etc (she's not the tattoo shop's owner) We have a lot in common, to the same music tastes, almost the same b-day, same interests, etc Nevertheless, we're flirting up a storm, and having a good time, shes joking around with me, I am doing the same with her, shes very gentle as well (as gentle as you can be with a 11 needle gun in your hand) We finish up, she takes her pay (350.00 for the work, and I gave her a 150.00 tip, because she's really good at what she does), and I give her a nice tip. She closes the shop, we walk out together, go home, and thats the end of it.

 

 

Since I've had some bad luck with tattoos, on Sunday I asked her if she wanted to re-do another one of my tattoos, and she was like hell yeah. I came back the next day and she sketched out my arm (I also conceal my tat's because I never know what's going to happen to me in 10 years, I may be out of business and be looking for work) She told me she would draw up the art and call me the next morning to see when I had time to come in for the work. I kid you not, the next day, she called me 21x before she got me on the phone to tell me she finished the work, and I could come down to get the work done. I told her I'd be there at 6:30 and she said, "great, I get to spend all night with you again" not sarcastic, very sweetly. I thought if I left my office it would take me an hour and a half to get there, so I took off at 5:00pm, well I got there at 5:30. Get down there, and all of the tattoo dudes are there, garbed up in their tattoo glam, being total "grungy dudes" joking on her. So I sit there, shes getting ready to do her work, and the dudes that were there take off for the night. So, 6:00pm, she begins to work, and the entire time, she's hitting me jokingly, getting really close when she doesn't have to be, and the kicker Insted of me using the armrest, I now get to use her lap. Strange. Each time I accidentally (and it was accidental) moved my arm and it touched her "spot" (what is the non-medical, pollitcally correct term for it now-a-days) EACH TIME I apologzied, same happened with her top. She didnt seem to care at all. I believe she even referred to me being a "real sweetie or a real sweetheart"

 

She's finished doing the outline, and I asked her if she was hungry, and she said no. I asked her if she wouldnt mind taking a break while I got something to eat. I ordered some pizza, it was delivered, I asked her once more if she was hungry (shes a really tiny girl) she said nope, but I'll have a bite of yours. She takes it, bites and she's done. Apparently I had pizza sauce on my face, she cleaned it, and then licked her finger. So she's wrapping up. Now this time, I'm in the chair almost 7 hours, and it's midnight. The entire time I'm there we're still flirting. Time to settle the tab, and this time, it was less money this time, for almost 1.5x the amount of time I spent in the chair. Maybe she's being nice, but Im not falling for it. Something is totally up here, and to boot, she didnt finish, and I know she didn't on purpose. She also gave me her email address so I could write her. She wants me to make another appointment. She has a BF, who I met the 1st night, but he's a flake. Washed out musician, with a dead end job. Oh, and she also knows I own a business, and she told me she might need a job in the winter, and if she did, would I hire her (after thinking about it, In a god damn heartbeat)

 

I looked for the suttle signs of "puppy love" on the 2nd night, but because she's concentrating on my arm, so picking up the suttle messages aren't happening. I know I wrote a lot more then I should have, but it may be important. Let me know what you guys think. There is not doubt that I am into her.We get along great, and shes a blast to hang out with.

 

Wassup with this chick?

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JustSoRight

She's into you. You need to use that e-mail address to keep in contact with her. But she does have a BF so until she loses his sorry ass don't get too involved.

 

But trust me as a woman those are so signs of her interested in you.

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