Should I try again?

[xbbnx]

Hi everyone!

 

I have found myself in a little dilemma...

 

Basically I have dated this chick twice before. First time we dated I looked at it as more of a fwb but she might have had feelings for me so it didint work out..2nd time we dated, the roles were switched. I started to enjoy her company(although I was really lonely and idle at the time, and she was the only exciting thing going on)but she didnt want to take things any further like she had done the previous time we dated. She ended up dissapearing with another guy. A couple of months go by, she initiates contact, we start talking briefly, we hangout and it was a fun time like old days! but things start to fall apart with cancelations on her part due to scheduling issues and other excuses (shes leaving town in a couple of months for military, and she works alot)..weeks go by and we seize contact, but she surfaces again wishing me a happy valentine..

 

I still want to pursue something with her as I enjoy her company, should I? Or should I let this one go? Help!

[OrangeSnack]

absolutely im always a firm believer that if you truly like someone you need to show it. What do you have to lose? Go at it!

[Ninjainpajamas]

Well I think after you burned her the first time she's going to have a hard time trusting you and spending time on that level again...plus she's still bitter and store about that I can assure you...even If she says everything is ok.

 

You can pursue but I anticipate she will blow you off again, or come to terms with the fact that she's leaving to the military and it doesn't really matter. It really depends on how she feels about, but you burned the bridge pretty bad the first time so It's never going to be the same.

[Oxy Moronovich]

Is she going to be reserve in the military or active duty? If it's active duty then it's best if you don't get attached.