blp2k8 Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 (edited) I am loving a girl for more than 4 years and on June 2011 after so many problems i got her contact number and i wished on her birthday and started talking with her, she too fall in love with me and we are loving each other deeply . She knows i am true to her and i love her deeply. We planned for future and our relationship is going on well for 6 months. Suddenly after i met her lastly, after that day she doesn’t respond me properly. She used to give me many reasons for not replying, the situation went more harsh and one day she told that she needs some space of few months or years and directly contact her parents for marriage and finally she said leave her and she is not ready to be in this relationship and she cant love now and she sacrifice our love for her father and don’t want such things. I am very much worried and confused why she is talking like this and i tried to convince her but she is strong in her decision. I gave her the space she asked without hurting her more. I went to no contact for 2 months, just before a week her examination results came and i called her to ask the results. I feel that she is reluctant to me and not willing to say anything to me. She told me to not contact her anymore and She told me that i won’t match her and don’t come in her life and don’t come to her parents asking for her... she says she is dominant and needs a person to order and not like me.... she says recently she was impressed by a person and realized that her spouse would be like that.....I am totally shocked to hear this ......... i have a very deep care for her and in our relationship i usually want to satisfy everything she wished and wants to see her happy lifelong..... She too knows this and she is too happy with me... but now she is saying that i won’t match her....!!! It really confused me... i tried to convince her she is repeatedly saying that i won’t match her.. I am confident that I am a best match for her ….then I said that I won’t come in her life and won’t disturb her anymore……… But I miss her deeply… My thoughts are full of her… I still have hope that one day she will come to me…. I need some guidance in making a second chance to enter in her life and lead a happy life… please help me… !!!! Edited February 18, 2012 by blp2k8
jus d'orange Posted February 20, 2012 Posted February 20, 2012 Hi there, I need some guidance in making a second chance to enter in her life and lead a happy life… please help me… !!!! This probably isn't what you want to hear, but you can't connect being in her life and you leading a happy life. She's made it very clear that she doesn't want to be with you. The most loving and respectful thing you can do for her is to do as she wishes and leave her alone. Instead, begin to shift your thoughts toward yourself and how you want to lead a happy life of your own. Take back your self-respect and realize that someone who leaves your life like that isn't deserving of your attention. Live for yourself and tell yourself that you will be fine without her, just as you were before you met her. If she changes her mind at some point, it will be independent of you; in fact, continuing to bother her will only make you less and less attractive of an option for her.
lubna Posted February 20, 2012 Posted February 20, 2012 if u really love her.....let her go n if she really meant for you she will cum bck eventually otherwise you will have a better option any how....trust me....n leave her....i believe being a girl that a true lady never wants to loose a loving companion n if she really thinks tht u r best for her she will cum bck.
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