Dragonsden Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 Not sure if this is worthy of a thread or attention. Mostly not! But here it is anyways Logged onto facebook (no longer have her as a friend .. she unfriended herself right after BU with me) and noticed I have only one picture tagged in from her album of a two week road trip we took together last March. The picture is of me inside of a huge hollow redwood tree looking up. Just wondering why would she delete/untag me from every other pic (there were lots) and leave this one. Why not delete everything? She seems happy with her new guy who she left me for and I say good for her. But is she trying to play mindgames with me or trying to invoke a response. I have been NC for the past 5 weeks and have texted her once with no response in 9 weeks. I dont undrestand ... anyone ...
ScienceGal Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 Just block her, delete her number. Problem solved. Basically, no one can know for sure why she left one picture. Just try to not let yourself get hung up on it. I know it's not easy. Just keep moving forward. Good luck.
Author Dragonsden Posted February 18, 2012 Author Posted February 18, 2012 Just block her, delete her number. Problem solved. Basically, no one can know for sure why she left one picture. Just try to not let yourself get hung up on it. I know it's not easy. Just keep moving forward. Good luck. I want to be indifferent. I dont want to make her feel like her existense bothers me. She is slowly becoming a nobody. The only part I have a little tough time forgetting/not caring is the memories we created.
Philosoraptor Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 Why does it matter what she thinks? Just cut this last tie and be done with it. You can keep the pictures for yourself if you choose to. If you like it you could save it and even post it yourself on facebook. But untag yourself from her life. She most likely just missed it if she did the others, or didn't want you to lose a picture of just yourself.
flitzanu Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 Not sure if this is worthy of a thread or attention. Mostly not! But here it is anyways Logged onto facebook (no longer have her as a friend .. she unfriended herself right after BU with me) and noticed I have only one picture tagged in from her album of a two week road trip we took together last March. The picture is of me inside of a huge hollow redwood tree looking up. Just wondering why would she delete/untag me from every other pic (there were lots) and leave this one. Why not delete everything? She seems happy with her new guy who she left me for and I say good for her. But is she trying to play mindgames with me or trying to invoke a response. I have been NC for the past 5 weeks and have texted her once with no response in 9 weeks. I dont undrestand ... anyone ... she missed that picture when she was removing tags. pretty simple. or maybe she symbolizes you as being inside a hollow log, and how it means she actually wants to be with you and not this current guy, because the world represents the log, and you are inside it, and looking up means you look up to her and the current guy doesn't respect her, but she knows you do. i could have made up that last part though. still betting she just missed the picture.
wilsonx Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 Or it could mean she doesnt want to let go of all the memories. In my opinion, it is inappropriate to have pictures of another relationship while in a relationship with a new person. It shows a lack of respect for the new person. As for the mindgame comment, you are playing mindgames with yourself. You just dont realize it yet 1
youngster Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 Or it could mean she doesnt want to let go of all the memories. As for the mindgame comment, you are playing mindgames with yourself. You just dont realize it yet ^^ this. My ex and I aren't friends on fb either however, she changed her profile pic to a picture of a stuffed animal I bought her while we were together. Believe me, it was (is) a serious mind**** but at the end of the day we are not together and it's just my imagination, like the temptations. It mostlikely has nothing to do with me.
KathyM Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 She probably just liked the picture, or it was unique, so she thought it was worth keeping up there for that reason. I wouldn't read anything other than that into it.
Numb79 Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 I know this is something that you probably don't want to hear and probably something that everyone has problems with hearing including myself. Why does it matter?? The more you analyze the more it will drive you insane. It shouldn't matter anymore.... well, at least thats what I try to tell myself. I guess I am just trying to convince myself now.....
Author Dragonsden Posted February 25, 2012 Author Posted February 25, 2012 Philosoraptor I have all the pics saved in my computer. It was taken by my Camera but regardless I am reading to much into it and you are right .. it does not matter. I untagged myself from that pic and also deleted an album of us together that I had. So far she has been the one distancing herself and I have not mentioned it once why she deleted me on facebook or xbox live and this was the first step I have taken truly to get her completely out of my life. Flitzanu I was thinking more in a negative light ... like she left me all alone in my little world (tree bark being my world). wilsonx This is a girl who tells me she is carrying a picture of her and of her previous previous ex's in her wallet four months into our relationship. youngster, KathyM and Numb79 ... I do realise it does not matter. I have also realised that creeping her facebook every other day or so is a form of breaking NC and it hinders my progress. I have not looked (or logged into facebook for that matter) since last weekend. doing great
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