ScreamingTrees Posted February 21, 2012 Posted February 21, 2012 If a girl came at me about smoking pot and gave me an ultimatum, I'd just smile and say "Don't let the door hit you on the ass on your way out." The problem IS that you DON'T SMOKE POT. I couldn't and wouldn't be with a girl that doesn't smoke pot, because I don't like stupid people. lol, that's funny. You sound as stupid as the large group of vastly different people that don't smoke. About as stupid as I might sound when I bash pot smokers, although I don't bash all of them, just the type that I regularly see and avoid around me.. People like you.
skelterhelter Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 TigressA, I know this is hard but I think you made the right decision to end it. Yes, you will have your doubts and may want to go back to him. But seriously, this issue will NOT go away. I've had friends who smoked pot and dated guys who have smoked -- MOST of them would flake on me in a heartbeat if it meant getting high. Their whole lives revolved around pot (how they would get it, the things they'd buy to make their experience better, etc); it's like they had nothing else going for them. Pretty sad that someone would choose pot over a person, but hey...I guess I'm the strange one It's not even about ultimatums. It's about having the common courtesy to respect you and not put you below the almighty pot. Seriously, you deserve better. You've been extremely compromising and fair to your boyfriend by not being demanding and putting up with something that makes you unhappy because you want to be with him. But all he does is side with his addiction. And, believe me, there is no "quitting" when someone already has the mindset that pot is more fullfilling than their own girlfriend, a person who has the f*cking fortitude to put up with your immature crap. Find someone who wants your love and will treat you with the respect you deserve!
Emilia Posted February 22, 2012 Posted February 22, 2012 If a girl came at me about smoking pot and gave me an ultimatum, I'd just smile and say "Don't let the door hit you on the ass on your way out." The problem IS that you DON'T SMOKE POT. I couldn't and wouldn't be with a girl that doesn't smoke pot, because I don't like stupid people. The irony! 1
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