big_leagues Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 I had this as a post somewhere else, but this question is for girls. My gf has stopped texted recently and been distant, yet she still continues to play me on words with friends. This morning I didn't get a good morning text, like always, but she played me on the game... Can anyone possibly explain?
veggirl Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 Oh words with friends, lol. I don't know....have you tried asking her what's up? how long has this been going on for? We can't really offer much without any other details.
Author big_leagues Posted February 18, 2012 Author Posted February 18, 2012 I posted details in another thread. We are, hopefully, still in love. Her mom is.pressuring her, and she has kids. The first 4 months she texted good morning and night daily, and always wanted to get together. Saw her Tuesday and everything was fine. She called me yesterday at 5 am to say hi, got busy at work and never heard anything. I texted her today after I saw game, and she said...love u , with my mom, sorry I didn't call. I can add more, but I'm so confused by the last 2 weeks sudden distance.
veggirl Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 Okay. Just read your other thread. How old is your GF? Why is she so influenced by her moms opinion? And what is going on in your GFs life that her mom has this opinion? Does her mom not like you? Depending on how close she with her mom, her moms approval could be very important to her, so if she dislikes you you could be in trouble. I think your best course of action is to relax relax relax...at least try. Back off a bit and let her clear her head if that's what she needs...basically let her come to you next time.
Author big_leagues Posted February 18, 2012 Author Posted February 18, 2012 Moms only thinks we're friends, but we.don't want to tell people yet. We work together, so we need to wait a little while. Mom thinks she doesn't spend enough time with her kids, but she does. Ex also a problem This week has been nuts. I thought she was dumping me, but we had fun the day I saw her. She even got mad that before I came over and we talked, I didn't say love u at the end, which I thought was cute. Yesterday was just so weird, and today just a quick message then words with friends. I just miss her, just talking. I know that sounds dumb, I just have never felt this way about someone. She is 25 btw
Author big_leagues Posted February 18, 2012 Author Posted February 18, 2012 When u say back off, does that mean no texting or calls at all??
veggirl Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 When u say back off, does that mean no texting or calls at all?? I think you should let her initiate a little bit. For a couple days. See what she does. 25 and issues with mom, kids, and an ex?
Author big_leagues Posted February 18, 2012 Author Posted February 18, 2012 Trust me, I know. There's just something there between us. I'm sure I'm the first person that's ever said that haha. Last week I didn't get.message or call for 2 days. Then I get message Monday morning..are u mad? I played it off ok, but that's just part of the craziness. She still seems like she loves me, but..
2sunny Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 She not respecting you since you are her secret. You know this, right? Find a gal without all this drama and one who doesn't need to hide you and your R.
Author big_leagues Posted February 18, 2012 Author Posted February 18, 2012 I really apreciate your opinion, but that part we both agreed to keep secret just because of our job and kids. Would be a huge mess at work if people found out, and her mom might spill so we keep it private. If she was trying to distance herself.. wouldn't she avoid video games on the phone? Back to the original question I guess haha
Author big_leagues Posted February 18, 2012 Author Posted February 18, 2012 so No women are sure why she would do this? sorry,very frustrated
Author big_leagues Posted February 19, 2012 Author Posted February 19, 2012 I guess I just need to talk to her. Last night I got a text saying she was sorry she was busy and would text me today. So I sent her a message this.morning because its her daughters bday. All I got back was miss you and love you. Nothing else today. So frustrated. Sorry I keep replaying this
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