sanctun Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 I was a rebound for this girl I dated around August.She had just broken up with her bf of 7 months.I knew her from before as before then we used to hook up around January but I knew something was up down the line,she was seeing this other guy but i didnt know . I got to know when i met her at the bar and we started dancing and one of my friends asked her abt her bf. she was like I dont have one.so I leave to get a drink and when i turn around i see some guy making outt with her.I was so mad i pulled her from him and started touching her inapporopiately and she just left coz she was so hammered.it was a stupid thing to do but i was just so mad.the guy wanted to kill me but he just left chasing after her.she lied to me telling me he was a friend while he was more than that. when she got a bf we kinda stopped.I tried getting over her but my feelings were just too strong.August came and we started hooking up again,then it weent downhill.She wasnt talking to me as much,and then mid september she tells me that she cant date me coz of her feelings to her ex.I get mad and we texting back and forth mean stuff,which was a mistake I believe. Around November she tells me she got back with the fool,and i just lose it,and stop texting her as often as I used to.Then around Dec we start taalking again,and she says she wnts to hang,which i want to but i know it wont be the same.So all this time I havent seen her since sept. JAnuary rolls by and she comes to the town where I am(she is in a diff city,her bf and me are at the same town) and I did the mistake of begging for her back but she wasnt having it.the next week im chilling at the bar with my friends and she shows up with her bf and it makes me feel like sht.I leave the bar,I just had to. Today while having a good time at the bar,I see her all over her guy and it just ruins my night.My friends have been so supportive telling me to move on but I guess im finding it hard trying to find a girl who is as attractive and who im feeling.I saw a prof picture of her with her bf and idk why it didnt hurt as much,I looked him up(big mistake) but you know what,f her. Its just so relieveing writing.I feel so much better now.just wanted to rant.im talking to this one girl off a dating website and hope it goes well.
Cocollective Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 Hey mate, it's one of the worst feelings in the world seeing your ex with someone else. Even if you are a nice guy and wished them the best, being confronted with it to your face is like a kick in the guts. Although she might physically be the most attractive person you've dated, that's not worth anything if she's not attracted to YOU that way. I wish you the best in disengaging your emotions for her and moving on. Once again NO CONTACT for a prolonged period of time is essential for you to come to terms with your loss. Best wishes, Rich
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