Author Eternal Sunshine Posted February 19, 2012 Author Posted February 19, 2012 I sleep with a large soft toy bunny 2
Mme. Chaucer Posted February 19, 2012 Posted February 19, 2012 When my husband is out of town (mostly 5 days per week) I sleep with two obnoxious but warm and cuddly small dogs! 2
imraan47 Posted February 19, 2012 Posted February 19, 2012 Wow Sunshine. I feel exactly what you mean. I am in the same position as you are in, and i am a guy. Everything you do, from wake up to sleep you just remember your partner. Even 2 months in of being single and yet flashbacks everywhere. I actually have dreams about her 3-4 times per week! The last time i woke up and found myself filled with tears and i was semi conscious and saying i am sorry and just crying. I woke up and thought she was sleeping beside me and i kept crying until i feel asleep back again. I would never wish this on an enemy even. All the best to you.
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted February 20, 2012 Author Posted February 20, 2012 This is so hard... I had some LC with my ex. Even this is a small step forward as for the last two weeks he couldn't even be civil to me. He just seemed full of hate and anger. So he told me what he did over the weekend, who he visited and to take care of myself. It was nothing but I still teared up over it at work All contact previously was along the lines of "get f-ed, leave me alone, I want strict NC"
Star Gazer Posted February 20, 2012 Posted February 20, 2012 This is so hard... I had some LC with my ex. Even this is a small step forward as for the last two weeks he couldn't even be civil to me. He just seemed full of hate and anger. So he told me what he did over the weekend, who he visited and to take care of myself. It was nothing but I still teared up over it at work All contact previously was along the lines of "get f-ed, leave me alone, I want strict NC" There's no such thing as low-contact when trying to heal from a breakup. There is contact, or no-contact. There is no in-between. You either take the medicine, or you don't. Give yourself the tools to heal, and allow yourself to use them. NO CONTACT. 1
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