johan Posted February 19, 2012 Posted February 19, 2012 You say to let go of the urgency, and other people tell me to ask out girls as soon as I meet them. Let go of the emotional urgency. Sure, ask them out. But make sure it is you who is asking them out and not your ego. Part of your problem is that you're not especially introspective. You don't seem to ever be curious about why you are like this. You just accept your mindset without question, and you attribute all your troubles to the unfair world. People want you to recognize that the world wasn't built to discrminate against you. You are the one who is making your life difficult. Until you start putting some thought into why that is, you won't get anywhere, except by accident. 2
Badsingularity Posted February 19, 2012 Posted February 19, 2012 Because I've asked out somehow around 25 girls in my life that I knew fairly well and they all rejected me before or after the first date, never even getting a kiss from any them. Good job trying! Now keep it up. The more you do this the less you will care about the rejections, unless you wait too long. Don't wait another month to ask someone out. It would be best if you asked out or asked for a phone number a couple of times a week. If you do this with more frequency, like many including myself suggest, you will start to care less and less about the rejections. As you care less you'll find that your chances of getting a yes will sky rocket simply because you'll let go of all the worry and lose the nervous vibe you have now. Also just to change your perspective a little. You give girls kisses. You don't get kisses from girls. A tip on something you could of done different when the girl at work started walking away. Instead of saying "bye girls name" You could have said something like . " hey where are you going? Lets go to the bar" She still may have said no to that, but sometimes girls respond to just a little extra persistence. The most important thing is. Don't stop now. It will only work if you keep it up. 1
xxoo Posted February 19, 2012 Posted February 19, 2012 A tip on something you could of done different when the girl at work started walking away. Instead of saying "bye girls name" You could have said something like . " hey where are you going? Lets go to the bar" She still may have said no to that, but sometimes girls respond to just a little extra persistence. Yes! I know so many guys who would do just that....persisting in good humor even after hearing "no". That kind of charming, playful banter can be attractive. 1
triphopper414 Posted February 20, 2012 Posted February 20, 2012 I love short guys! I have a thing for them now. I am 5'7, if they are that height I am all about it. Shorter I may have to consider because I like to wear heels. I think they have more personality to compensate for their lack of height. The last 3 guys I have dated have been short and I love it. Ladies, there is a big pool of men I feel like we are not tapping into.
evawatson12 Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 Dating tips for men includes various things but these various things are too vital. You just cannot ignore one and follow other tips. Together you need to follow to make your date interesting and happening.
Emilia Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 I think they have more personality to compensate for their lack of height. I think that's often true and that's probably why I am attracted to shorter guys (as in 5' 6'' so relatively short by male standards, the same as my height) They tend to be fit as well, build muscles nicely, good at certain sports with a lower centre of gravity. Short boys rock
ThaWholigan Posted March 14, 2012 Posted March 14, 2012 Short guys always do well with women where I'm from. I don't know where this whole short guy stigma comes from you know, I never knew it existed till the internet.
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