that dude Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 ok to make a long story short... my ex girlfriend of almost a year broke up with me. A month later she told me that she wants to get back together. I have begun dating someone else and didnt tell her because i knew it would upset her. I told her i couldnt be with her and just wanted to be friends. She saw me out with my new girl a couple days ago. She didnt say anything at the time but called me later. She is super angry at me for not telling her and pretty much hates me now. I still care about her and dont want her to hate my guts. What is my move here? should i apologize for not telling her even if i feel i have done nothing wrong? or just move on?
mesmerized Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 ok to make a long story short... my ex girlfriend of almost a year broke up with me. A month later she told me that she wants to get back together. I have begun dating someone else and didnt tell her because i knew it would upset her. I told her i couldnt be with her and just wanted to be friends. She saw me out with my new girl a couple days ago. She didnt say anything at the time but called me later. She is super angry at me for not telling her and pretty much hates me now. I still care about her and dont want her to hate my guts. What is my move here? should i apologize for not telling her even if i feel i have done nothing wrong? or just move on? Just move on unless you want to get back with her at some point. I would hate you too if I were her, it's a normal reaction to have one month after a breakup!
Almond_Joy Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 I agree - just move on. What's done is done. She might have taken it better if you told her when you started dating the other woman. Even if she didn't, it's not really any of her business. You're not responsible for how she takes you moving on.
Badsingularity Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 She is super angry at me for not telling her and pretty much hates me now. Too bad for her. She broke up with you and now you have a right to move on and be happy. Why would she be angry about that? 1
TheFinalWord Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 Too bad for her. She broke up with you and now you have a right to move on and be happy. Why would she be angry about that? I agree. She broke up with you. She's mad you found someone else. You didn't do anything wrong.
pie2 Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 I agree with the other posters. I think she's manipulating you, and by not responding (aka playing into her games), she'll probably have more respect for you, in the end. She has no right to make you feel bad...you did nothing wrong. At first, it may feel like she hates you, but it will pass. Just stay strong.
Sugarkane Posted February 18, 2012 Posted February 18, 2012 Maybe she should've thought of that before she brokeup with you? What did she expect?
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