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Can someone really "grow on you" without initial spark? what do you think?

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Friends...yes

 

Lovers...no, someone can grow on you but I could never feel the same way about them as I'd like to, even If I really do care and love them, It's just not there for me, that "it" factor has to be there for me to be satisfied.

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Can someone really "grow on you" without initial spark? what do you think?

sure it happens all the time

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Can someone really "grow on you" without initial spark? what do you think?

Yes, it happened to me a few times. Sometimes the image we have of someone when we first see them is the opposite of what they're really like. Once you really get to know them you can go from not being attracted at all to finding them attractive. To me personality plays a much bigger role in attraction than their appearance. :)

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two people can meet and hate each other and then meet by chance years later and start doing the horizontal bop

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Totally possible.

 

Doesn't work if you go into it hoping you'll suddenly become attracted, like dating someone to see if you start liking them romantically or something. But yeah for people who are friends, can def happen that you start liking them more and more...that can grow into romance organically.

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Doesn't work if you go into it hoping you'll suddenly become attracted, like dating someone to see if you start liking them romantically or something. But yeah for people who are friends, can def happen that you start liking them more and more...that can grow into romance organically.

generally if the girl starts the friendship she wants more, if the dude starts it he is basically screwed

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Can someone really "grow on you" without initial spark? what do you think?

 

Yes, if you hang around them long enough. :)

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Yep, it's happend to me so many times.

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