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So I don't know exactly where to start this off exactly but my ex gf and I were together for 3 1/2 years and I started becomming abusive and onto drugs really bad (pills & heroin) not gonna lie. She left me for about 9 months, and in them 9 months I got my 2nd dui (which i spent 90 days in jail for it) and my mind was really messed up for a while and never truly forgot about her. Well as of today 2-17-12 two days ago on the 15th she came to see me after work, now remember, she has a 3 year pfa on me. I had my friend contact her through facebook and never in a million years would I think she wanted anything to do with me. There's good and bad to this, the bad is she's been with someone for 7 months BUT the good is she's leaving him and moving out with him and getting a place with me (on her choice) and told me she contacted me back because she missed me and loved me and nobody made her feel the same. Now in these last 9 months I had single, I had to figure out what made me in the situation I was in, what I did wrong, etc. Which I have done. I seen her on the 15th, and was so absolutely happy I cannot express in words to you guys. She's honestly means everything to me and I just want you guys to know, if you love and care about someone NEVER give up. Never. No matter how you feel or they feel cause feelings change and sometimes it's actually best to leave someone for a little to get your mind right, it's worked wonders for me, and this is the first time in my life anything has happened like this.

 

I hope this gives you guy's some courage and helps some of you make it through that are going through a break up cause trust me I went through what you guy's are going through and it's the worst feeling in the world, I rather die then have heartbreak. Don't give up, sometimes you have to feel pain to be happy again!

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Honestly, it sounds like she is using you as an emotional crutch as she is unhappy with her new guy. Your the fall back plan. I wouldn't accept that.

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