digger Posted June 4, 2004 Posted June 4, 2004 after she filed for divorce on march 1--i moved out mar 5 to my brothers--here we are June 4 and i wonder how things might have gone had i stayed these 3 months. any opinions?
TempSain Posted June 4, 2004 Posted June 4, 2004 Digger: Your gonna drive yourself nuts thinking about all the what ifs. The point is, you can't change the past. Just try to move on and look to the future. Think of it this way, it can only get better from here on out.
Author digger Posted June 4, 2004 Author Posted June 4, 2004 no doubt about it--but would that have had ANY chance of succeeding (anybody else stayed?)
TempSain Posted June 4, 2004 Posted June 4, 2004 I guess your gonna drive yourself crazy. GO out and take a drive in a car. Open the windows, play some music and just think about what your gonna do from now on.
mendingmyheart04 Posted June 4, 2004 Posted June 4, 2004 Digger, I know there's nothing worse than having someone tell you to just "get over it" when you're not ready. It's taken me months to get over my break up but if finally hit me one day that I'm pining away over a guy who OBVIOUSLY didn't/doesn't have my best interests at heart and he wasn't worth crying over. He's moved on with his life so why shouldn't I? There's a quote that says "The one who cares least has the most power"...there issomething to be said for being able to do this.
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