Randybrandt Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 My ex contacted me saying how in love she was and how she felt her boyfriend was the one and she would never touch another person until she is married which is hysterical because 3 weeks ago she came over to my flat to give me my stuff back and proceeded to kiss me passionately and I said stop this doesn't feel right and she said I suppose you are right. I hadn't heard from her in 3 weeks and last night I got a text on my mobile saying how in love she was with him and how she said he was the one and he understands her and how happy she is she found him and how she wants to spend the rest of her life with him and told me he is the greatest person she ever found which is also hysterical because she told me that same line when we first met. I told her I am quite glad she found someone who is nice and caring and I proceeded to tell her about a nice girl I met at library and we are just friends at the moment and she proceeded to ask me if I wanted to double shag. I said no Amanda isn't like that and she is a good girl and I would never do anything like that to her and I told her I was lucky I got to date her when I did and I am glad we dated but sometimes we all fall out of love and I happy for you. Did she say anything back? The double shag was the part that really nailed me she hasn't changed one bit. She can say all she wants and say she changed and how in love she is but the bottom line is she wanted to say that to make herself better and gaslight me.
marqueemoon4 Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 Yea, if she was so happy and content she absolutely wouldn't feel the need to broadcast it to you over and over. She just wants a reaction out of you.. don't give her anything. So emotionally immature.
Author Randybrandt Posted February 17, 2012 Author Posted February 17, 2012 Maybe Smudge. She is definitely emotionally immature:rolleyes: I wanted to be the adult in the conversation since obviously she could never be the adult and tell her how happy I was for her ( I have moved on) and wanted some closure for myself so I told her those things and I proceeded to tell her about Amanda just so I could show her I have indeed moved on and she brings up double shagging so classy:rolleyes:
smudge21 Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 It is always funny when a dumper starts acting like this when the dumpee is no longer chasing after them, begging them to come back, feeding their ego. If your ex is so happy with her new life, then why the desperation to clearly make you want her now? She wants a reaction, a sign that you still care and a hint of jealousy, but you've moved on and good for you. Typical insecure push/pull routine right there. Good luck to you and your new interest.
marqueemoon4 Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 I don't understand.. if you've moved on why are even communicating with her at all? Ask her to not contact you anymore.
Author Randybrandt Posted February 17, 2012 Author Posted February 17, 2012 (edited) I haven't spoken to her in 3 weeks and that was only so she could get the stuff she left at my flat months ago and I never broke any contact with her until yesterday when she told me how happy she was I wanted some closure for myself so I told her how I moved on and how happy I was for her. I have no need to be contacting her again and if she is happy she won't feel the need to contact me again either closure is finally done. Edited February 17, 2012 by Randybrandt
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