Demonica Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 hey guys im new here and i reallyy need advice! Im gonna mention this first: About a week and a half ago, my fwb relationship ended (he was 27 and im 18) it only lasted a month and last tuesday we stopped contacting each other so im guessing we're over... but this all started when we had sex on the first "date". He never wanted anything more than sex, he wants to be bachelor for life lol and yesterday i had a date with another guy (first date), we watched a movie and had sex in the middle of it before the date, he would text me constantly and was always fast at replying but now after the first date he doesnt reply fast at all, it takes him 10 mins to an hour to text me back, i mean he could be busy but still... i texted him at 10:30pm and he didnt text me back and he goes to bed every night at 12pm (i was expecting at least a goodnight ) and yes the date went well, although i think we talked about our exes a little too much >< my fault =( heres some info about him: hes a total nerd (used to be shy but broke out of that shell), 26 years old, wants a relationship and he loves to text We met on POF and he still uses that site, he was on it today as well i know that we've only had our first date but should i just ask him out? i know its wayy too early but i hateee playing games and im impatient lol i have no idea if hes playing hard to get but i dont want to turn him off what should i doo
veggirl Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 oh wow. it's way too soon to ask for exclusivity, and honestly you probably won't get it stop sleeping with these guys so soon! and wtf, a movie at his house is NOT A DATE. and don't talk about exes on a first date. he probably wrote you off right there. it screams "i'm not over the last one" when you do that.
Lobouspo Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 Really is this a troll post? I hope so. You are scr#wing strangers on the 1st date and wondering why they dont want something more. Given your behavior who would respect you. I certainly would not. I hope other 18 year olds do not share your mentality or the future of western civilization is in sad, sad shape.
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