Dox Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 I really like this girl at work. We always say hi and wave to each other and shes always smiling. A week ago I decided I was going to try to get over her, as I thought I would never have a chance with her. I was avoiding her at work, when she comes and says hi, Id just say hi back and just walk away (of course in a non obvious way). Before I would struck up a conversation with her. I was doing great, until a couple days ago, when our shift was over and she asked me if I was taking the bus, I replied with a yes and walked away. But I started thinking I'm not going to see her for awhile because of my 4 days off, so I went back to her and asked her if she wanted to catch the bus with me and she said yes. Before we caught the bus we went out in town and had some food, we were talking, laughing and there was a hell of a lot of eye contact. This one moment that really left me wondering when we were just staring into each others eyes for like 5 seconds not saying anything. I'm not sure if I should have went back to her, I should have just left. Now I'm back to square one, I just cant stop thinking about her, it's driving me crazy! I don't know if I should pursue this further, I don't know if she likes me. I don't know if shes just being nice. lol I just don't know! I NEED ADVICE!
Author Dox Posted February 17, 2012 Author Posted February 17, 2012 I don't think that was a date tho. We were just hanging out as friends. I'm just not sure if she likes me, I'm bad at reading signs, I don't know if shes just being nice. I don't want to get my hopes up. Lol this is why I wanted to take a break from girls, their just complicated and they drive you crazy! anymore advice is much appreciated
smudge21 Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 So you both went out, had a good time and got along really well... what are you exactly asking us for now? It sounds like you're doing quite well enough on your own. Have some more confidence and realise you asked her out, she said yes and you had fun. So do it again and see where it leads - try not to put too much pressure on yourself and just see her as someone you'd like to get to know better - don't presume anything in other words. If you want to know what to say, then I'd go with "it was nice last time, how about we do it again" or something to that affect, maybe suggest a film or whatever. Dating is always nervous at first, but it's also the most fun aspect when you're first getting to know someone, so go with your instincts and enjoy it. I would possibly say she does like you by the way...
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