wurrrwilf Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 So, I've been talking with a girl at work for the last couple of weeks and getting really good vibes from her, but on Valentines Day, she turned down an invitation to hang out with me at my place. Earlier in the day, she had expressed that she'd probably end up drinking due to the nature of the holiday and being single, so, naturally, I thought it a good idea to invite her to drink with me instead. She told me she didn't have plans, but she'd feel bad about leaving her roommate at home by himself. She then informed me that she was planning a movie night at some point and that I "should totally come." I'm wondering how I should proceed. If this event actually comes to pass, should I take her up on her offer?
delmo Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 Was she maybe just joking about the drinking part maybe? Maybe also her roomate had a rough breakup or was feeling down and felt they had to be there to be a good friend. She's invited you to a movie night at a later date so it does sound like she could well be interested in you. I wouldn't lose any hope yet. See what happens in the next few days and even suggest to do something at the weekend if you are both free.
Author wurrrwilf Posted February 17, 2012 Author Posted February 17, 2012 Well, when we talked the next day, she did say she had only a few beers because she's in bed by ten, and her roommate didn't get home until eight.
brokentreasure Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 Vday is a couple's/ lover's holiday and well, ya'll aren't either of those. But yes - take her up on the offer. She may have declined you're offer to drink (how romantic) but she did offer you an alternative. She could have just said 'no thanks bye', 1
Author wurrrwilf Posted February 17, 2012 Author Posted February 17, 2012 Inviting a girl to drink at your place isn't exactly the most enticing offer dude. It's like come over and fck! You could have atleast invited her out to dinner and movie (at the theatre) or some other out of your house activity! You should ask her out again and this time to dinner. (not at your place) Yeah, I realize now that it probably seemed like I was just trying to get into her pants. I wonder, should I clarify to her what my intentions were, or should I just let it go?
delmo Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 Inviting a girl to drink at your place isn't exactly the most enticing offer dude. It's like come over and fck! You could have atleast invited her out to dinner and movie (at the theatre) or some other out of your house activity! You should ask her out again and this time to dinner. (not at your place) I agree. What are her interests? Try taking her somewhere she might like or even something a bit off the beaten track.
Angel40 Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 What is wrong with having sex at his place? Very natural if you ask me. I think this girl is a prude. She might want you to pay her for sex, like dinner and a movie, like a cold sore covered whore she is. Free love, free sex is how I roll. All the bitches here who say, take her to dinner and pay for that and movie and pay for that, are just as whorish, cold sore covered sluts as this girl OP.. Here we go again, It just makes Zeuz seem really sad, in the fact that he has to come on the net to post derogatory (look it up in the dictionary Zeuz you probably don't know what it means) comments about women. As he has real issues with himself and rather than deal with them, would rather abuse and hate women instead of taking a look at himself and seeing how obviously crude, screwed up and horrible he is. lol lol oh deary, deary me, go and get a life you silly little boy.
Author wurrrwilf Posted February 17, 2012 Author Posted February 17, 2012 I agree. What are her interests? Try taking her somewhere she might like or even something a bit off the beaten track. She loves animals, but I imagine every guy she's dated has probably taken her to the zoo. It's too obvious. I'll figure it out, but I'm not much for formal dates.
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