Is having no contact with your recent ex a sign of not caring?

[WomenAreNuts]

Hey everyone,

So my ex and I broke up two months ago. We were together for four months a year ago, broke up, then got back together for three months and broke up last April. When we got back together she told me she never stopped loving me during our time apart. I totally care about her and think about her a lot. We broke up because she said I don't communicate enough with her.."sometimes we have the greatest time, other times it's just blah" is what she said. We haven't spoken since we broke up two months ago. Is this a for sure sign that she does not care about me at all anymore? We're both 27 with well established careers(met at work). I no longer work at the same company. I know that she's on a shoot right now and is extremely busy so she has less time to mope than I do. But i find myself asking myself if she ever thinks about me...if she's tempted to call me etc. I know that each relationship has it's unique situations and what not. I guess i'm confused...so do girls usually tell guys they love them and then break up with them three days later?...............aggghhhhh.............i am going to clone the first woman and base her on Kelly Lebroc in the 80's movie "Weird Science".

[DerangedAngel]

Is this a for sure sign that she does not care about me at all anymore?

 

Absolutely not. She might miss you just as much as you miss her, but she is able to realize that you aren't good for each other.

 

so do girls usually tell guys they love them and then break up with them three days later?

 

I don't know about "usually" but I'm sure it happens a lot. Sometimes you can have intense feelings for someone right up until the very end. It's a possibility that she still loves you. But that doesn't mean you're going to end up back together.

 

I hope you are able to find something to take your mind off your break up. I know it's rough.

 

Cheers.

 

-Deranged