Newly divorced people have like 0 dating skills

[singlelife]

Since I date women that's what I am going to talk about though I'm sure guys do this as well.

 

I've noticed that when a lady get's married at 18-20 years old then get divorced at 35-40 they are finding themselves at a disadvantage. They have been used to one way of living for so long that aren't able to adjust once they're single. They expect men to deal with them as their ex husband did without realizing the new men you meet have to get to know you and they may not like you once they do. That's the breaks. Also it is up to the ladies to show men that they are the type of girl who they may want. Anyway, this is just food for thought.

[thatone]

my gf and i were talking about this very thing the other day, we both see it alot since we're in the 35-40 age bracket.

 

we came to the conclusion that it's mostly them taking bad advice from their persistently single friends, and not considering the fact that what their persistently single friends tell them doesn't work, obviously, because all of those things have kept them single all that time.

[Oxy Moronovich]

Of course, many divorced people suck at dating. It is really bad if one or more of the reasons apply to them:

 

1. They got married when they were teens/early 20s.

2. They don't have much experience prior to getting married.

3. They were married for a real long time (a decade or more).

4. They got married because they felt they didn't have many other options.

5. They got married because they were too anxious to start a family.

 

However, that doesn't mean divorced people who suck at dating should be scorned or derided. Many, many never been married people suck at dating. The problem comes when a person will not adapt to make themselves more appealing.

 

There are a lot of bitter people of both genders whose main problem is criticism of others while being unable to appreciate self-criticism.

[alphamale]

Anyway, this is just food for thought.

well i'm eating it up