Cmac Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 My ex and I broke up about 2 and a half months ago, and we've been NC for about 6 weeks now. I was doing okay throughout January, not really thinking about her much, and the start of this month also. Recently though I've been dreaming about her CONSTANTLY which is causing me to think about her constantly throughout the day as well. I keep getting the urge to contact her even though I know it's completely pointless at this stage, I honestly don't even know what I'd say to her now, so I haven't given in. Is it normal to have these regressions? I was finally starting to think I was getting over things and was keeping my mind off of it, but lately these past few days have been so hard.
Philosoraptor Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 Sure, the ups and downs are part of the healing process. It helps to have something on hand to take your mind away from it. You should allow yourself to feel the downs and work through them, but you should take your mind off of it if it becomes lingering misery. Get a handheld game, a yo yo, etc. Just something you can always have with you if you find yourself lingering in bad thoughts.
Exit Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 I've been doing worse lately too. Actually, not just worse, but the worst I've felt the entire time. Kinda like you I'm somewhere around the 6 week mark too. Feeling terrible. Can't offer any advice other than to you let know you aren't the only one...
bluewolf17 Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 Cmac and Exit, Just a thought, But while you are both going over your past relationship and letting it effect your life right now, there could be a really decent girl that is waiting for the right guy. And maybe when you meet her, you will both wonder what took you so damn long. I'm sorry you are hurting. You deserve to be happy. Let that old stuff go.
coopster Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 Cmac and Exit, Just a thought, But while you are both going over your past relationship and letting it effect your life right now, there could be a really decent girl that is waiting for the right guy. And maybe when you meet her, you will both wonder what took you so damn long. I'm sorry you are hurting. You deserve to be happy. Let that old stuff go. yup.. that sums it up
CaliBabe Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 No, it's normal and bound to happen. You just pick yourself right back up and keep it moving.
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