ziggue Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 (edited) I looked at this guy's profile on Facebook that I almost had a thing with. He is in a relationship now. Bet it was the girl he was after while he tried to picked me up in the process. Grr. The night we met he was the one that initiated everything. He added me on Facebook himself and wanted to remain in contact. We were emailing each other since we had met. Glad I emailed him I wanted nothing to do with him in the end when he still wanted to stay in contact after he acted like a complete ********. He was nice at first. Then started going on about some other girl he had been trying to get with but still wanted to keep me around. I said no. I did not want to be a back up. Blah. Blah. Blah. Don't understand why he added me on Facebook or wanted to remain in contact in the first place. It seems so easy for guys like that. To get a girlfriend. It pisses me off. I was just happy with a pash and dash. This guy was the one being an idiot about the whole thing, wanting to keep me around when he really did not. Then he is the one that gets the relationship in the end. Seriously?! Just annoyed. I think cause I was actually going to give the guy a go if he had let me but he was being a ******** about things and that just turned me off. It sux that guys can get in relationships more easily then girls can. Just annoyed that I am still single I guess. The whole thing just does not feel fair. Especially when I was the one being treated like **** to begin with. Still pretty annoyed about the whole thing. I actually gained his respect by doing that apparently. Telling him to **** off when he was not treating me right. Did not respond to that email but. Just left it. It wasn't worth it. It felt good that I did not let him use me in the end but! Caught on to that early. Still. Hate the fact that he won out in the end anyway. It always feels like I loose out with this. Even when I have done nothing wrong. Hate it and over it. . Edited February 16, 2012 by ziggue
Emilia Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 It's normal to feel that life is unfair sometimes. A couple of days and you will feel better, a couple of weeks and you won't even think about him.
poodle Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 I'm sorry you had to go through that. Why do you feel that he won? You're the one lucky enough not to have him in your life. Maybe relationships are easier for everyone else because they settle for less.
silvermercy Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 It's always easier for two types of people: 1. Those who are extremely lucky to meet a very good lasting match (but that is rare). 2. Those who have really low standards or settle for less. Being picky has its disadvantages of course (I know as I am one of the pickiest people when it comes to this) but be glad that you did NOT have a relationship with him. In this case, you were the lucky one!
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