CSU Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 I've been talking to a guy for almost a year now. It took about 7 months for us to do anything sexual. He tells me he really likes me and I'm cool to chill with and all that but he doesn't want a relationship. One night we were talking and I mentioned to him that I could be talking to other guys because he hooked up with a girl he met at club. Well... He flipped out started screaming about how he doesn't want to think about me talking to other guys or me being with other guys. The next night when I asked him again about it he claimed he was just upset. He wants to make plans for us to go to the beach this summer and when we do hang out he's very affectionate towards me. We hung out on Valentine's day mainly because I was avoiding him and there were a few times where we didn't talk for weeks and i kinda missed him. He tells me that he misses me and really enjoys hanging out with me and all that. He tells me one of the things that attracted him to me was my attitude. He claims he can't be in a relationship because he's a [COLOR=#fa7777]* [/COLOR][COLOR=#fa7777]* [/COLOR][COLOR=#fa7777]* [/COLOR][COLOR=#fa7777]* [/COLOR]ed up person. Many of my friends think he really does like me and he's met his match because we're both very blunt, we call it like we see it, we have laid back attitudes, we have many things in common and have similar views on life. When we hang out we laugh about everything when we go to sleep he wraps his legs around me because he knows my legs are the first thing to get cold. When he talks to me he talks in terms of "we". I don't know... I'm just confused because his words say one thing and his actions say another. Any advice and/or opinions would be nice.
Appleanche Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 Let his actions speak to you and not his words. People can 'say' anything, that's easy... it's not as easy to back those words up with actions if the words aren't genuine though. Pay attention to what he does or does NOT do - that is what matters. Based on your post, I would try not to get to attached. When a man says he can't be in a relationship, this usually translates to he can't be in a relationship with YOU.
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