mikemills9 Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 me and my girlfriend of a year recently broke up. she ended things after a fight that i started because she hung up on me to talk to her ex-boyfriend. she said she wanted to be able to talk to whoever she wanted, so she broke up with me. the next day, she called me begging to get back with me. according to her, she doesnt care who she talks to anymore. she just wants to be with me. this is not the first time she's broken up with me. she breaks up with me every month or so like its not serious and like it doesnt hurt me. she has cheated on me twice before. my question is, am i wrong for not taking her back this time? i told her we at least need some time off. is this wrong? i feel awful. she has been crying for days. but i feel like we need the time away from each other. NC. also, her ex-best friend has started to talk to me. would it be wrong for me to talk to her? my ex knows/assumes we talk.
TheFinalWord Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 Bro, This is a toxic relationship. She's abusive to you and you have self-esteem problems. Look at these facts: 1) She cheated on you twice...do you like being abused? 2) She hung up on you to talk to her ex-BF...what? 3) She breaks up with you regularly and it doesn't bother you 4) You're questioning whether you need time off. I think you both have issues. You are letting her treat you like garbage and you keep taking her back. She cheats on you, lies, breaks up with you every month. And you feel bad for taking a (small) stand? Is this what you want in a relationship? You'd be better off being single. Once you get out of this, re-assess yourself. You're worth more than this. You're not a piece of garbage that another human can use and abuse. 1
PrincessPeach Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 If you keep taking her back she isn't ever going to learn from her mistakes with you. You taking her back is like telling her that it's okay to cheat as long as she cries about it and is sorry. It isn't. She isn't good for you. You are not wrong for not taking her back. Feeling awful yourself is natural. Most people feel bad at the end of a breakup, whether they ended it or not. in time it will pass and you look back and know you made the right decision.
Oxy Moronovich Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 Dump yer current chick and get with her ex-best friend. Problem solved.
Badsingularity Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 You are right for not taking her back. She showed no respect for you.
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