geegirl Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 (edited) Some are telling me to send the letter, some are telling me to ignore him. Just because I choose to ignore the man, does not mean that I have hope. Why would I want to be with a lying cheat? I've told you to ignore him from day one but you still had contact. Even this time around, you still had to send him a text. I'll tell you this again, silence is a great way to say F*** Y**. So whether we tell you to send a letter or ignore, you continue to do what YOU want to do. Ignoring is one thing. Still needing his respect and questioning why you don't get his respect is another. Why would you want to be with a lying cheat? You did it once before. And you could possibly do it again if you continue letting him have access to you. I can safely say that if he came back and told you he was single, going back would cross your mind. Edited February 15, 2012 by geegirl
Author stillhurt Posted February 16, 2012 Author Posted February 16, 2012 Ok. I accept the fact that I am part of the problem. Will work at not engaging. Like I said, I did block him, but texts still come through! And, I let it get to me. I never should of replied with an angry response. I failed. Again. I will also not come here again with my loser story. Hopefully, as more time passes I can prove it to myself that I am not what you say I am.
geegirl Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 Ok. I accept the fact that I am part of the problem. Will work at not engaging. Like I said, I did block him, but texts still come through! And, I let it get to me. I never should of replied with an angry response. I failed. Again. I will also not come here again with my loser story. Hopefully, as more time passes I can prove it to myself that I am not what you say I am. Still, the intent is to make you realize where you are going wrong when you falter, especially when you get defensive. Come here and post but when you post something that clearly is taking you backwards rather than forwards, and you fight it, you're only going to get posters trying to wake you up. Post whenever you want. If you came on here and stated you're struggling but staying focused on letting go and doing what you need to do to keep him away, you'd get a different response. If you come here posting, venting about him without YOU actually doing what you need to do, after all this time, then you're going to get a kick up the behind in hopes of getting you to do what you are supposed to be doing. Take it in stride and put it into action. It's not to tear you down but to give you a slap behind the head to wake up. I know when you are emotional, it doesn't take a snap of the finger to forget someone, even when they're crummy jerks. But at some point you have to start taking accountability for your actions and your role in keeping YOU stuck. Yes, prove us wrong. You know you can't wait to come back and tell us to suck it! I'll be waiting
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