silvermercy Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 What the other posters said. But I will especially agree with "the search for Mr Right" part. Anecdotal evidence has proved that the chances are AT BEST minimal when you have a FWB. Good luck!
Airborne Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 What is it about this guy that makes him not boyfriend material? 1
Alex DeLarge Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 What is it about this guy that makes him not boyfriend material? This is what I'm wondering. If he's attractive enough for you to want to have sex, then why wouldn't you want to take things further? I always fall into FWB situations with girls, and frankly it just gets old after a while and I just want to move on to the next girl. No hard feelings at all.. That's just how I am.
maybealone Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 See the reason why I think he might be throwing game is because when we got off the phone last night I told him, "Hey, you don't have to go through all the motions. It's really not necessary." And he replied with "I know, I'm just being a nice guy. I don't want you to think that I'm all c*ck and I don't think of you as a real person, that's all." That's the line that confused me.... That, to me, says that he might be overcompensating to make sure you don't feel like you are being used. He sounds like a decent guy who doesn't want to blow the opportunity for regular sex. Of course, you'll never know for sure unless you talk to him about it.
Author ditzchic Posted February 17, 2012 Author Posted February 17, 2012 This is what I'm wondering. If he's attractive enough for you to want to have sex, then why wouldn't you want to take things further? I always fall into FWB situations with girls, and frankly it just gets old after a while and I just want to move on to the next girl. No hard feelings at all.. That's just how I am. Yeah, he's attractive enough but there really isn't a huge spark or a lot of chemistry between us. We don't have much in common. We are in different places in life. We just aren't good couple material.
mesmerized Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 What the other posters said. But I will especially agree with "the search for Mr Right" part. Anecdotal evidence has proved that the chances are AT BEST minimal when you have a FWB. Good luck! I disagree with this. When you're already getting sex ,you're not desperate and THAT will always help in finding a suitable partner! I find that it's more likely of me to show some kind of desperate stupid behavior when I'm sexually frustrated than when I'm not. And to a poster who said having sex without emotions might harm her emotional intimacy in future, I don't know how true that is! Sex alone really does not have to have emotions associated with it. I used to think that way when I was younger and insecure. Emotions don't come from sex, but from a deeper connection you feel with each other and they get stronger/deeper by sex I find. That's why you can have sex with some people and not feel anything and with others, you are overwhelmed with emotions.
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