yzyzyz325 Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 (edited) Hi, all! Sorry its a bit long. I am her first of everything, and the relationship lasted for 1.5 yrs. She was quite green and very cautious to mentally giving, which made our relationship stuck. I thought as she grew up, everything would be fine. But she suddenly called it off almost 10 months ago. Last weekend, she got a new bf and updated her relationship status on facebook which she never did when we were tgt. I asked her to update relationship status once b4, but she said she was not that open person to show this, so i didnt ask agian in order to respect her will. After she updated the relationship status right after she got new bf, I dont know if our relationship means anything to her. The followings are the good things and bad things that i did in our relationship, i am so confused that if i am a good boyfriend. Good things: 1. I am very polite and friendly, and never swear or say dirty words to her. 2. We went for trip together once at the beginning of our relationship. 3. I went to hospital to see her sister after she had accident and brought bouquet even though she said there was no need to do that. That was the first time I met her family (her mum and her sister), and I made very good impression on them. We didn’t talk much though. 4. I made a comic book by hand (only few pages) and a translated article (46 pages, didn’t give her until few months after BU) to her. 5. I respect her very much, and never force her to do things she is not willing to do, even though it would hurt me.[/sIZE] 6. Every time I went back to my homeland (only two times), I bought a lot of things for her like clothes, accessories, and so on. 7. We called each other almost every day, and I never hung up first, I always waited until I heard the ‘click’ of her hanging up. Sadly she never noticed and even refused to believe it when I told her this just before she broke up with me on phone. 8. I cooked for her every time she came to my place, and she loves my food. 9. I never had good sleep when she stayed over at my place due to being cold and afraid of falling off, because she always unconsciously took more than half of the single bed and our blanket. And I never tried to take it back so I could have a nice sleep, because I didn’t want to wake her up or make her hard to sleep. 10. I bought things for her now and then even though I was a very poor student. 11. I never said no to her. But she rarely took initiatives to ask me to do things anyways. 12. At her birthday dinner with our mutual friends, I bought rose and brought a surprise cake for her while everyone was singing ‘happy birthday to you’. 13. I never felt bored of shopping with her. 14. We never or rarely had fights or arguments. 15. I always walked her to stations, sometimes even took her home when we actually lived quite far to each other. 16. I am patient, she did many careless things which hurt me quite a lot, but I barely complained. Bad things: 1. I said some mean things, for example, her size, at the beginning of our relationship, but I didn’t mean to hurt her, I was just good at making inappropriate jokes. But I never said again after I realised it was very bad. Actually, I kept telling her that she looked good when she suddenly crazily tried to lose weight in the end of relationship. 2. I initiated 2-3 cold wars, and it’s all because she was very cold to me and didn’t want to spend time with me, which made me feel she didn’t love me at all. For example, she would always make time for friends, and didn’t care we had not met for two weeks. 3. I was not very romantic, and did not know much about the city we live since I was only a poor international student. I didnt know what i could do to have fun, also, more importantly, i didnt have enough money or time to have fun. She complained that it was bored to be with me when she broke up with me on phone, for example, she had been to most of the places we went for dates. 4. I complained few times, all regarding that she was too careless to me. 5. I dont like showing off. i did express my love to her, but i would not tell her every single thing that I did for her. Therefore, it’s hard for her to notice how much I have given. thanks a lot if you read it all. Please tell me, am i a good boyfriend overall? Would she remember me? Thanks
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