emotional3 Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 Ok so here it goes, been really good friends with a guy for 12 years. Dated when we first met then it ended and we both met other people and got married and had children! My marriage ended 3 years ago and after a long haul I got over it and started dating again! Still in close contact with my best friend he has declared his love for me and is in the process of ending his marriage - just waiting for the right time! I love him with all my heart and he does me and we are definately soul mates! I am technically single as we are not together yet and I drunkenly kissed a guy at the weekend but felt so guilty I had to tell my bf I had kissed this guy! He freaked and Said he does not want to be with me as can't trust me now and we were so close to being together I clearly don't love him that much! I hate myself and feel so guilty, I have lost everything I have ever wanted! What do I do? Please help!!
SincereOnlineGuy Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 Am I in the wrong?? Yes, you were 'wrong' to share the information with him. (but you "did it for GUILT", which I'm sure will please many a fool here at LS) (but that doesn't matter much anymore) The guy had no right to make demands on your exclusivity when he himself is married. The best thing you can do is to (NOT-wait) around to see if/when he extracates himself from his own marriage without any urging from you. Just start/resume living your LIFE. If another social prospect comes along, then so be it. If not, then you'll be available whenever this guy does finally go through with ending his marriage. Just don't put all of your bets on his ending that marriage anytime soon. In the near term, he will get over your kiss, and come a'lookin' for you. No drama or fireworks in the meantime.
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