Confused728 Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 (edited) We haven't spoken in two years, but an artist we like is putting out a new album and it had the sound my ex likes. I doubt he will get It. But I was thinking of just mailing it to him .. No notes, no nothing, Just the cd. He is married now, but I won't my name on the package and he will know its me. But it is music he liked at one time and I really want to do this .. What do u think? Edited February 15, 2012 by Confused728
Author Confused728 Posted February 15, 2012 Author Posted February 15, 2012 Well, if you really want to give him the gift, why don't you set up a meeting and hook him up. Just a light, casual encounter like the one old friends have without relationship talk. Then give him the gift. If you just send it to him it might get thrown into the trash. Lol no he is married It would be wrong of me to ask to meet him. I'd feel strange as I haven't talked to Him in 2 years. Just something I'd like to give him to hear.
Frank13 Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 What would be the point? No contact in 2 years and he is married? Time to move on.
Author Confused728 Posted February 15, 2012 Author Posted February 15, 2012 What would be the point? No contact in 2 years and he is married? Time to move on. Just small though, kinda makes me feel closure I guess,I dont expect anything out to it, just something like to Mail out and forget about it. Least he won't think I hate him completely.
Author Confused728 Posted February 15, 2012 Author Posted February 15, 2012 I'm afraid to meet him. To many emotions, I stopped talkin to him two years ago.. How would I just start again?
yzyzyz325 Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 (edited) i am planning to do the same. My ex broke up with me almost 10 months ago, and last weekend she just got a new bf. I want to send her a bouquet on her graduation ceremony as a return to the bouquet she gave me on my graduation ceremony, and that will be next yr which is gonna be two yrs after BU. I am not going to tell her who send it. Not sure if it's a good idea. Edited February 15, 2012 by yzyzyz325
Author Confused728 Posted February 15, 2012 Author Posted February 15, 2012 It's not as if I expect him back, I know that's not happening. We haven't talked in two years and I ended it abruptly with no goodbyes or anything.. Then he got engaged three months later. But I just want to send this album as its an artist I loved, and I think I got him interested in that music. I just want to send it as a small gesture I defiantly do not except to talk to him or anything. He may even throw it in the trash.. Who knows lol
geegirl Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 He's married. There's your closure. Move on. There's your closure. In any case he is mentally and emotionally involved with his wife that I would hardly think he's even pondering on your break-up. Don't project your thoughts and feelings onto him and just because you need it doesn't mean you need to go looking for it. He's married. You have emotions. Enough said.
stillafool Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 Just small though, kinda makes me feel closure I guess,I dont expect anything out to it, just something like to Mail out and forget about it. Least he won't think I hate him completely. Leave him alone. It's been 2 years and you have to get your own closure. You admit you still have feelings for him. Just leave him alone.
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