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Should I call the date off


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I'm in my fourth year of university and haven't ever been on a date, so I went on pof and ended up getting into a texting relationship with a girl from my university and we are to go on out for lunch on Friday. However, I feel a little scummy/desperate for doing this and don't know if I should follow through.

 

I think she is shy but definitely very attractive (we've been on webcam). So, I feel in combination of scummy/desperate that if she isn't actually shy and interested, this may be a joke to her.

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Your only way to learn to differentiate between the two is by talking to girls and dating. I'm sure she doesn't want to meet you just to waste her own time, especially if she is attractive. However, you can only learn about these things by working out others' personalities and that only happens when you regularly communicate with them not as friends but as potential lovers.

 

Don't let fear control your life :)

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