casper011 Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Hi all! Ok so I hung out with this guy a few times and he seemed really nice and friendly. We talked on Facebook some and he usually was the one to initiate our conversations. And he was like if you ever need to talk to me, I'm here. Well he asked me to come over to his place to talk some, but it was really late. However, he asked me twice, so I agreed. I went over there and we talked and had a nice time. I got to know him better and he got to know me better. Well that night we kissed..alot lol. I did stay over that night, and the next night we basically did the same thing. We even made half-assed plans to do stuff together. Well after that weekend, he hasn't tried to talk to me anymore and if I try to text him, he doesnt try to keep the conversation going and he hasnt even asked me to come over and its been over 3 weeks going on 4. And the one time I see him, he just nods at me and keeps moving on. My question is, why has his behavior changed? He seems more distant. I am thinking he was just looking for one thing and thats fine, but I would have appreciated if he would have told me before hand, instead of acting like there could have been more. SN: We live very close to each other, like 3 minutes literally, so its not like its a hardship to see each other.
Philosoraptor Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 He could be playing "games", which a mature person needent do. But if you were affectionate twice and he has been distant since; I'd gamble he didn't feel the chemistry.
Leigh 87 Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 If he has not asked to see u in 3 WEEKS, when he quiet literally lives right around the corner... He just does not care for you. At all. If a guy wants a girl badly, he will drive half an hour to see them: living around the corner, if a guy wanted to see you. HE WOULD. U cannot be right for every guy, no big deal. Guys like girls: he talked to you, and obvioussly wanted some "fun" with you. Or, perhaps u sounded cool, and he wanted to see what sort of fun could happen. He may or may not, have actively thought " she is cool, therefore I will consider a relationship". Many guys do not look for relationships, and onl;y pursue them if they have to, if they meet a remarkable person WORTH being in a relationship with, to them. He probably just thought you sounded nice, and wanted to see if u would have some fun with him. He did not enjoy hjis time with u enough to see more of u, don't be offended, but just forget about him. He is not interested.
veggirl Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 He's def not interested. Who knows why. Maybe he got what he wanted "some fun", maybe he didn't get what he wanted (sex), maybe he met someone else. Doesn't really matter though, cause the end result is the same. OP, do NOT contact him again. He basically ignores you in public, how embarrassing for you and how freaking rude of him. Do not text him!!!! He obviously knows you are interested.
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