SJC2008 Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 The girl from "It never fails" has been texting me ever since she told me she was not ready. I had a feeling she did like me and It finally came out tonight that she still does. She started of with "I'm hating tomorrow already" and it turned into "I had a great guy and had my guard up". She told me she has been hurt, that her last bf dumped her for no reason and her ex h is marrying the woman he cheated on her with. I feel TERRIBLE for her. I tried to console her and told her things are just piling up because of v day and she'll be allright. She told me she wanted to be with me (not those words but I knew) and I told her like I did when I 1st started to date her that I'm not a multi dater and am seeing someone but still like her and that I was not "just inase-ing" her but I just can't drop the other girl like that and she understood. I know I have to work on my insecurities but she's way to insecure for me.
ja123 Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 It sounds like you made the right choice in not getting back with this girl. I do wonder how much you like the new girl you're seeing, considering you met with this one again. Do you know what you're feeling with the new girl? Are you being upfront with her? It wouldn't be fair to lead her on or mess her around.
Author SJC2008 Posted February 14, 2012 Author Posted February 14, 2012 I haven't met with the 1st one, that was all by text, she's "text heavy". I like the new girl, She's funny, mature and I'm attracted to her. If things progress I'll tell her what I'm looking before things get heavy.
Author SJC2008 Posted February 14, 2012 Author Posted February 14, 2012 She knows I was seeing her. I told her about what happened, not everything but she knows I was recently dating.
ja123 Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 OK, you hadn't met the 1st one and you really like the 2nd one. Well, it sounds like you're on the right track providing you don't keep texting the 1st one.
Author SJC2008 Posted February 15, 2012 Author Posted February 15, 2012 To clarify, I haven't meant with the 1st one since our 3rd date when she ended it. Now I do like the 2nd one but I'm a little weary of her age. She's in her early 30's and you probably see where I'm going with this. I don't want to get into "my clock is ticking" scenario. I guess that's where communication comes into play.
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