SteveC80 Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 lol at these women supporting Chris Brown hitting a women because hes good looking:laugh: http://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/horrible-reactions-to-chris-brown-at-the-grammys
kaylan Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Are you really taking twitter posts made in jest seriously?
SJC2008 Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 They're just saying he's hot and are trying to down play what he did so they don't look like they condone it. Either way, I call it a hall pass, pgoes both ways IMO. The better looking you are the more you can get away with. If an avg joe like me messaged a woman online and said "Nice pic but I already have it from when I hacked your computer" that would be a defiante non response. If a HOT guy did it he'd probably get a "lol you're crazy. What makes you think I haven't hacked you? I'm xxxxx by the way". And I'm not saying all woman would respond but you get the point.
insertnamehere Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 So, we are going to indict an entire gender based on a few anecdotes from idiots? Stay classy.
fishtaco Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Nah, those chicks were just playing around. When the real beating happens, they'll change their minds real quick. But it's true that highly sought-after people of both genders can get away with a lot. Good looking people even get paid more money at work. It's how the world works.
poodle Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 (edited) Didn't Ted Bundy have lots of female fans too? Many women seem to have a thing for bad guys. Edited February 14, 2012 by poodle
Woggle Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 It is pretty sickening but I don't think it is all women. I must say I am pretty shocked he has been able to make such a comeback. At least my wife got up and told me to call for her when he was done performing.
Jynxx Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Congratulations, you just found out that there are at least 25 female retards on the internet. Who would have thought?
gaius Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Hey I still think Casey Anthony is innocent. It happens for good looking women too. I thought I heard Rihanna was back dating Chris Brown? Looks like those women will have to get in line!
oldguy Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 (edited) It is pretty sickening but I don't think it is all women. I must say I am pretty shocked he has been able to make such a comeback. At least my wife got up and told me to call for her when he was done performing. 'beat me, whip me, hurt me, make me write bad checks" it does take all kinds, the bold, the beautiful & the truly disturbed. I'm not saying Whitney wouldn't have gotten involved with drugs if it wasn't for him but she comes from a long line of high profile entertainers who all survived it. And any little bastard that could raise a hand that way gets no respect. Hey I still think Casey Anthony is innocent. It happens for good looking women too. I truly find Casey Anthony unattractive. Possibly due to her demeanor during the trial. I've been a student of human behavior for years & she may be innocent, hell OJ may be innocent but both of those people are truly messed up. I'm sorry, both of them ARE innocent. Edited February 14, 2012 by oldguy
SmileFace Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 He is also rich. Your argument doesn't stand.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 I was personally absolutely stunned about these comments. I think these women are a$$hats. I think by saying what these girls are saying, even in gest, they open that door for men to say those kind of things. Why shouldn't guys say those things if they can? And if a guy said "yeah I would beat her/yeah I would punch her in the eye", he'd be castrated for it. The entire thing is disturbingly sick. Chris Brown seems douche even without knowing that he is an abuser.
musemaj11 Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Women find Chris Brown attractive because he is famous and wealthy. Physically he is okay, but not that good looking.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 I personally don't understand why Chris Brown's career wasn't destroyed after all that abuse stuff anyway. Why, three years later, he is on stage and people are cheering him and his ex is on stage too.
grkBoy Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Frankly, when you see a woman will let a guy get away with anything because he's "desirable", it speaks clearly why you should not envy that guy. Women like that are just more drama, and that guy simply knows how to keep her at a distance, and then toss her in the trash when he's done with her. I'm not trying to demean all women, just the "no self-esteem" ones so hardbent on having a hot/wealthy/exciting boyfriend that they destroy their lives in the process...and make themselves less desirable to most men out there.
oldguy Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 He is also rich. Your argument doesn't stand. Who's argument? I was personally absolutely stunned about these comments. I think these women are a$$hats. I think by saying what these girls are saying, even in gest, they open that door for men to say those kind of things. Why shouldn't guys say those things if they can? And if a guy said "yeah I would beat her/yeah I would punch her in the eye", he'd be castrated for it. The entire thing is disturbingly sick. Chris Brown seems douche even without knowing that he is an abuser. I have noticed that even here on LS that guys will make some very... disrespectful comments directly to another member that go way beyond innocent flirtation & the respondent treats it like a compliment WTH!? I'm a strong believer in reinforced learned behavior so I sort of realize why some of these guys think these comments are acceptable, but I'm left wondering; are some of these women/girls so needy or have such low self esteem & if so where did they learn to not just tolerate but encourage this behavior. Just a rant.
ascendotum Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Frankly, when you see a woman will let a guy get away with anything because he's "desirable", it speaks clearly why you should not envy that guy. Women like that are just more drama, and that guy simply knows how to keep her at a distance, and then toss her in the trash when he's done with her. I'm not trying to demean all women, just the "no self-esteem" ones so hardbent on having a hot/wealthy/exciting boyfriend that they destroy their lives in the process...and make themselves less desirable to most men out there. IDK, I was jealous of the guys I know who get away with anything. (I'm not talking the roughing up women aspect here) I don't mind desirable guys having hot girls keen on them...like a law of nature, but the different set of rules (or no rules) of behaviour thing, can suck. These hot guys have fun, then the girls are back on the market, he doesn't get the drama or emotional baggage....though it is not always like this. Some women are just happy to service or be submissive to hot guys, I guess for the ego/sub-dom aspect and don't expect anything to eventuate out of it. What comes to mind with the last bit, is a few good looking guys I know now who are getting DT BJ booty calls (the guys dont do the travelling or get undressed) and are knowingly having flings with other women and a few more who are doing multiple fwbs and the women know and are cool with it. Some women also see arrogant jerk, arsehole, tough guy behaviour as 'masculine/alpha' traits.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 I have noticed that even here on LS that guys will make some very... disrespectful comments directly to another member that go way beyond innocent flirtation & the respondent treats it like a compliment WTH!? I'm a strong believer in reinforced learned behavior so I sort of realize why some of these guys think these comments are acceptable, but I'm left wondering; are some of these women/girls so needy or have such low self esteem & if so where did they learn to not just tolerate but encourage this behavior. Just a rant. Oldguy, can you give an example without calling anyone out? I am curious about what you mean as obviously an older man. I think what happens is the two play off each other. These kind of women/girls let themselves be treated this way and don't stand up for themselves because of the self esteem, and the guys don't even know or care much for respecting these women or themselves. A man that has respect for himself doesn't treat women like they are garbage. Men that do this kind of stuff appear to have low self esteem too but it just shows through in different ways. Confident men do not hit women or verbally abuse them. It's fake macho act that isn't about real strength or leadership as a man. And it's the projection that our culture gives that this fake machoness is "better" then real masculinity. And both men and women can buy into it. Which is why you get guys on here envying guys that get alot of women no matter how the guy acts, for the simple fact they get women. They are buying into the culture that promotes an awful ideal of men and women too. HOpe that makes sense.
SmileFace Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Th argument that women will accept anything from a good looking male. This women are likely only presenting themselves in this manner since he is nothing more than a public figure. He is unibtainable and also has money and talent that will draw women to him. These comments are just fans talking crap and nothing more. I am not a supporter of Chris brown but I do enjoy his music. I won't stop being a fan since he made a mistake. He isn't the first and he isn't the last. I wish people will stop escalating the confrontation as if he is a god or shouldn't be able to do any wrong. Get over it ! And I am familiar with domestic abuse so I am not just talking out my ass.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Smile, you really believe that beating up a woman that you were in a relationship with is a simple "mistake"? I don't think this is a matter of him being held to a standard that we woudn't hold a regular person to. I think it's actually the reverse, where he can get away with being a douche because he sings songs and dances.
joystickd Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Oldguy, can you give an example without calling anyone out? I am curious about what you mean as obviously an older man. I think what happens is the two play off each other. These kind of women/girls let themselves be treated this way and don't stand up for themselves because of the self esteem, and the guys don't even know or care much for respecting these women or themselves. A man that has respect for himself doesn't treat women like they are garbage. Men that do this kind of stuff appear to have low self esteem too but it just shows through in different ways. Confident men do not hit women or verbally abuse them. It's fake macho act that isn't about real strength or leadership as a man. And it's the projection that our culture gives that this fake machoness is "better" then real masculinity. And both men and women can buy into it. Which is why you get guys on here envying guys that get alot of women no matter how the guy acts, for the simple fact they get women. They are buying into the culture that promotes an awful ideal of men and women too. HOpe that makes sense. What is real masculinity then? I wonder what a misandrist would have to say about it
joystickd Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 There is a lot a good looking man can get away with but there is also a lot an honest man can get away with. I had a friend that was banging 3 women while being in a relationship. He told them he was in a relationship and would have conversations with his girlfriend while one of them was there. They were all cool with what was going on.
SmileFace Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Smile, you really believe that beating up a woman that you were in a relationship with is a simple "mistake"? I don't think this is a matter of him being held to a standard that we woudn't hold a regular person to. I think it's actually the reverse, where he can get away with being a douche because he sings songs and dances. No, I am not saying it is ok. It isn't only a mistake but if you have paid enough attention he has lost numerous deals and fans because of this. He has also apologized many times. He is only human, why should he lose his career over this? My own mother and best friend are both survivors of domestic abuse. I am not taking sides here. All I am saying that these women are only talking like this since they can. It is just talk. I don't see how he is got away with anything.
SmileFace Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 My own gf taking Browns side! I should get used to it all the girls I know just say stuff like Rhiana probably wanted to be hit for S&M I am not taking brown's side but people need to stop acting as if he isn't a human. People do ****ed up **** daily. I wish every man and women lost everything once they ****ed up. I am not going to even discuss what Rihanna wanted or let alone what lead to the confrontation since I don't know anything about these people.
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