icebeam Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Me and my girlfriend were together for two years she broke up with me because I did not do the little things anymore. She said she wanted space and I could text her once a week. I am 4 days with no contact however it is now v-day and I am struggling to make it through it. I just want to go all out and do EVERYTHING for her however I know this would not be respecting her space. Part of me feels the best gift I can give her today is space and to be honest this gift is more difficult to do than anything else. F*** this is going to be a tough 24 hours! Anyone else in the same boat as me? If your carious full thread about break-up can be found here. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t313620/
Thatguyintx Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Stay the course! Its very hard to do. But, it is the best gift you can give. Heck, she chose this gift. It's not like you to guess what she wants. She told you. I am a typical boundary crosser. And you will be too if you violate her request for space. I get anxious that my SO may feel I don't care by doing something special for her. In reality, she feels I don't care when I violate her request for space. Leave her be for now. (Taking my own advice)
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