Childish Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 (edited) Hello, so me and this girl were going out for about a year and a half and things ended horribly. We broke up, she dated another guy, I found out and sent some pretty f'd up texts because of who it was and how recently after me. Didn't get a response at all, left it alone until i apologized a month later to receive "stop trying to contact me blah blah ill call the police" when i only sent one message after the 2 mean ones to apologize. anyways, no contact for about 2 months after that until she broke up w/ her bf. She initiated talking to me a little bit, the convo's were really up and down until it got really heated again at which point I had texted her mom to have her stop contacting me (because it just ended up in horrible put down's to the point of harassment). Anyways, I'm going to a birthday party for 2 of my old coworkers and I'm not sure if she is going to be there or not. She worked at the same job as me so there's a good chance she will be there. So basically we've been broken up ~7 months nc for ~3 and I want advice on what to do if I see her. I mean I really don't have any intention of trying to get her back or anything, me and her have dug ourselves way too deep in a hole past point of reconciliation imo. I honestly would like to be civil with her, but I feel that if I go and she's there it will be super awkward tension. I don't want to just ignore her, well I do, but I feel as if though I talk to her and say "hi, or, how's it going" I'll get a nasty response back. I'm not looking for any drama with her so should I get an escape excuse if she ends up there or at least try and be friendly, or just show up there and not talk to her at all? Thanks in advanced for the input. P.S. if she goes theres only about like 12 people total lol not some huge party, one of them being the ex she dated after me as well and I'm 19 she's 20 which probably explains the immaturity of us haha Edited February 14, 2012 by Childish
Philosoraptor Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Just be an adult. If you don't want to talk with her more than a greeting, then excuse yourself.
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